My First Vlog
Dating coach and day game expert Jeremy Soul stayed at my place for a week. Check out the video I recorded with some cool footage!
3 Things I Learned from Jeremy Soul
Day game expert Jeremy Soul stayed at my place for a week. In the midst of his successful US tour I had a chance to pick his brain for a week. As I showed you before in my first vlog being around another like minded person really gives you the chance to pick up new information. In fact I learned a lot from just spending time with him and Jeremy learned things from me. Here are three things I learned from Jeremy.
1. Marketing Jeremy Soul is a marketing genius. No doubt about it. He is one the best marketed person within Love Systems. That is one of the reasons why his day game workshops are always sold out.
A big part of it is also that Jeremy is good at networking. What I learned is that PR is a lot about networking with the right people. During the day I work at the Love Systems office where I am responsible for a lot of the marketing, but I still learned a lot from Jeremy on this area. After reading Crushit by Gary vaynerchuk and spending time with Jeremy I now understand a lot better what personal branding is. Over the course of this year I will be putting all these tips and tricks together to get myself more media exposure.
2. Day Game Even though I’ve been doing day game for a while now, I still learned a lot of things from Jeremy when it comes to day game. He’s the number 1 guy for day game and he is always evolving his own game. It’s a lot of subtle things that I learned, but my biggest breakthrough in day game is that now I’m fairly accurate at predicting which girls in the daytime are going to be receptive for an approach.
I remember about a year ago Soul telling me how he can spot girls that are going to be really easy to approach and close. Honestly, back then I thought he was just being delusional. Fast forward a year later, I now know exactly what he means. Now I can walk down a street and immediately see which girls are going to be easy to talk to with fair accuracy. It’s a weird skill to have.
Part of this is me having done many more daytime approaches over the course of a year, but also being around Jeremy more so I could pick up his subcommunications. A week earlier I had spent some time with him in San Francisco.
3. Social Circle Game Even though Jeremy might be best known for his day game, make no mistake he is also very savvy when it comes to networking, establishing relationships, and meeting the right people. In other words, social circle game.
He and I had long talks about this in our times in the car. Jeremy would give tons of examples of how he used social circle game to enrich his own life. Especially since he moved from London to Stockholm. I also shared some of my views and techniques on meeting the right people and establishing relationships.
He also shared a lot of things I never thought of or have even heard of. There are a lot of social circle game tricks that are not really widespread. The Social Circle Mastery seminar has tons of great material on building and extending social circles, but I even discovered many more tricks that are not covered in the seminar. So Soul and I were sharing a lot of these tips and tricks. I might post about these tips and tricks on this blog in the future.
Conclusion
So these are the things I learned from Jeremy Soul. Not only is the man great at what he is most known for, but he is very much a renaissance man. This year he is also leading Project Rockstar. If you haven’t applied yet, definitely check it out.
New Features on My Blog
As you might have noticed, there are two new things added to my blog. The first is a new logo on top. My friend Mark of Blue Moon Studio designed it for me. Thanks Mark!
The next new thing is the featured content slider on the homepage. Once a while I will change the posts that I want to be featured on the homepage. This is for new visitors (and people somewhat new to my blog) to find more posts by yours truly.
Hope you guys enjoy it!
My First Vlog
Jeremy Soul of Life with Soul stayed at my place for a week. Us two and Pendrixx were leading the Los Angeles Day Game workshop which was a great success. We had 9 students that all did great.
Instead of writing the what happened the whole weekend, I figured doing a vlog is more fun and efficient. At some point later I will write a post what I learned from Jeremy (which is a lot!). Till then, check out the vlog.
A Life of a Dating Coach Currently in San Francisco
I’m writing this blog as Jeremy Soul is sleeping next to me and whim is sleeping in his bedroom. It’s 9am and the day before we finished the Day Game workshop. This weekend I was staying at whim’s place with Jeremy to help out on the Day Game workshop.
Friday night after the office I went to LAX but I was a couple hours early only because I wanted to see the Lakers game. Unfortunately they lost big time and I immediately got a text from a girl (it’s actually the dancer I met at the LA Bootcamp last week, she is from Denver) how I should silence my mouth….ouch ;)
I sit at the gate for my flight to San Francisco. As I tweeted, there were no cute girls on my flight to SF. I truly believe airport terminals are a good representative how hot the girls are in a certain city and the quantity. SF is not really known for having good looking girls and that was reflected on my flight.
I arrive just after midnight, hop in a cab, and crash at whim. A lot of people think that the life of a dating coach is all fun and glory. Braddock wrote a post on a day of a dating coach. Well…it kind of is but it’s also a lot of hard work and sleepless nights. Most people don’t see that side. Not counting sometimes that you have to travel a lot (which is a plus) but you also don’t see your friends and family that much.
For me it’s mostly a lot of work and I’m fully immersed within Love Systems. During the week, I work at the office where I do the marketing. At night during the week, I work on my blog, respond to emails, work on LS related projects (like infield recording, writing, etc). Whenever there is a one-day seminar, bootcamp or Day Game workshop around California, I’m there. So sometimes I’ll be working 24/7 anything related to dating.
I realized that before I got into this. That’s why for me it’s really important to have focus outside of dating to keep myself balanced. Time with friends outside Love Systems and dating is really important to me. I want to be able to go out with my friends who know nothing about dating science. That’s why my social circle is very varied. That’s why it’s also very cool that Love Systems has a wide variety of instructors. We have Caucasian instructors, black (Vercetti), Asian (myself, Mr M, Jeremy Soul), and Hispanic (dahunter). If you ever wanted to work with someone of your own “race”, Love Systems has someone for you.
So yesterday we had a sold out workshop. It was me, Jeremy Soul, and Starlight leading the workshop. Plus we had approach coaches whim plus two guys who flew in from Utah. I see bright a future for these guys and they all did great. It was seriously one of the best day game workshops I’ve been part of so far. By the end of the day you could see everyone had a smile on their face and they walked with a swagger. Daddy is proud.
After the workshop we invited all the students for diner at Osha Thai. The food was seriously good. I also invited one guy I did a phone consultation with who is a venture capitalist. It was great meeting him in person and he had some great ideas how we could grow Love Systems. I was taking notes as I was picking his brain. I can’t wait to work out the ideas and start implementing them.
After diner Starlight, Jeremy Soul, and I all went back to whim’s place to rest up. We wanted to all go out after freshing up a little bit but that didn’t happen. After walking all day long and working with students we were too exhausted to go out.
(me drinking Thai beer)
Instead, we were watching California Pimp videos and trying to break down his game. In case you don’t know who California pimp is….he’s a genius. He’s a guy who films girls when they come over for a calendar shoot….or that’s what these girls think. The (legit) girls really think they are coming for a shoot but CP has different ideas. Of course the girls are really nervous as they are in a stranger’s apartment and he is filming everything. But CP is so pimp that he makes them feel really comfortable and he gets the girls to take their clothes really slowly. Then before you know it….the girl is going down on him.
What’s so fascinating is that his game 100% verbal. He doesn’t physically escalate at all but instead the girls are physically escalating ON HIM. So we all were watching a couple (pr0n) videos of how he does this and trying to break down his game. It’s really eye opening and it’s a totally different style of game. Karea, a well respected member of the Lounge, has a great break down of his game written down. Check it out on the Lounge if you have access.
There you have it. Four guys watching pr0n and studying game. It can’t get anymore efficient than that! After that we just were talking about different things like business, game, life in general and how we are all going Supernova this year. I am especially excited as I see awesome things ahead of me this year.
That brings us back to this Sunday morning. I have to take a shower, head off to SFO, drive to a friend’s place for Super Bowl (will barely make it for kick off!), and cheer for the Colts. Bonsai out.
Another Round of LA Bootcamp Fun
So the past weekend was a bootcamp with The Don in Los Angeles. LA is housing a lot of instructors now:
-Pendrixx
-Daxx
-Dubbsy
-dahunter
-Braddock
-Savoy
-The Don
-Myself
That means one thing…..plenty of trouble :)
Everyone was there at the bootcamp except for Savoy and Braddock. We had a great group of guys. Everyone was eager to learn and had a great time kicking ass at the infield workshop. One guy had really good “couch game” because once he had a girl sitting on the couch with him….game over.
After the first night of infield I was still very energized. So what to do at 2am? You guessed it….hit up a strip club! So I took 3 guys with me and I would teach some basic stripper game. I got the phone number of one stripper and they saw text book stripper game happening right in front of them.
The second night the students did even better. Everyone was armed with truth bombs (our new term only taught and explained at bootcamps) ready to be delivered. One of the bottle service girls even bit Daxx on the arm as a way of showing affection.
One of the things that really hit me lately is how sometimes it’s really hard for me to relate to students. My life is so different now and better in so many different ways. But not too long ago I was in the same shoes as these guys. I wanted to improve my dating life and I was looking for a solution. Now every time I help at bootcamps and workshops it hits me in the face how awesome these people are and how badly they want to succeed. It makes me realize again what it is like to be in the shoes of someone who wants to improve their dating life. That makes me motivated to help because I know what it takes to get that success. Then when you see these guys succeed……I almost get an orgasm.
Tomorrow I’ll be flying to SF to help day game expert Jeremy Soul on his workshop. Then the week after that he will stay at my place for a week and we’ll do the LA Day Game workshop too.
Good times and good times ahead.
