3 Deep Cold Reads to Build an Emotional Connection with Women

Posted at November 29, 2009

Here are three cold reads you can use right away. These are pretty deep cold reads and will work best once you have connected with a woman (definitely not right after your opener!).

I have separated the cold reads by the type of women they work best. These have been field tested by me many times with success. Trust me. They are awesome.

Here are 3 simple ways to start a cold read:

Then launch one of these bombs.

Archetype: Party girls and strippers.

You want someone who can be nice, caring, and sensuous to you. On the other hand, you also want someone who treats you like a dirty slut. In reality you want someone who is in the middle but you can’t seem find this guy.

(For a more in depth version of this cold read, I have a full stripper routine)

Archetype: Dominant/masculine/bossy women.

I bet you intimidate a lot of guys and always wonder why you scare off some guys. In reality, you need someone who is more dominant than you are and someone who can put you into your place.

Archetype: Professional women.

Sometimes you wonder if being beautiful is a curse. I bet that in the workplace some people don’t take you serious because of your looks and that frustrates you.

After delivering the cold read usually the women will agree with you and they will open up. This is a great moment for storytelling where you can start sharing information about yourself and relating it to her.

Let me know how these work out for you. What was your success?

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  • http://twitter.com/markanthonyGQ Mark Gonzalez

    Dude this was so money. Okay i didn't try it at a strip club but i used it on the crazy club girl that was all peacocked out. Let me just say it was hard as phuck to isolate her. When I delivered it word for word, her eyes opened up and she placed her hands on my thighs and kissed me on the cheek and said, “omfg how do you know know that shit” then i dhv'ed with how I'm only use to dating 9 and 10's so i understand her..blah blah blah. in closing got a K-close, number, a day1, and got madd props from a lot of guys at the club that were trying to pull.

  • http://www.asiandatingcoach.com Bonsai

    Dude good shit! It's really powerful stuff. Even more powerful when you are 1on1 (isolated) or on a date. It's like an atomic bomb when delivered at the right time. Go get her!

  • http://www.virajdance.com/ Viraj

    2 points for you Bonsai… for this and the stripper version. 1 pt = a blog post where I've got to take notes. I'm picky and I've gotta thank LSI for the great material.

  • http://www.asiandatingcoach.com Bonsai

    Thanks Viraj. What happens when I get 5 points? Will you bring me a hot Russian model? That would be a great holiday gift :)

  • http://www.asiandatingcoach.com Bonsai

    Thanks Viraj. What happens when I get 5 points? Will you bring me a hot Russian model? That would be a great holiday gift :)

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