Social circle game is the next level of game everyone should be playing. Some people call it Game 2.0; the next step for meeting and dating beautiful women. Most literature in the seduction community is about cold approach and there is very little coverage of social circle game. Th is i s slowly changing as more info on social circle game came out, e.g. the creation of the Social Circle Mastery (SCM) seminar by Braddock and Mr M.
SIDENOTE: For those who are not with familiar with social circle game; It’s the art of meeting and dating women through friends and people you know. That means that the girl you might be interested in, knows you through a friend of her’s or you two know similar people. There is a weak and/or extended relationship between you and the girl you might be interested in. It’s not a cold approach because you and her already have some affiliation with each other.
Social circle game has literally changed my life. First it was a bootcamp that opened up my eyes what is possible when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women. Then it was social circle game that really gave me (and I’m still working on this) the lifestyle where I get access to a lot of quality women. There are a lot more benefits of mastering social circle game, but here are 3 reasons why you should learn social circle game.
1. You will get the hottest girls.
Cold approach can be brutal. If you want to get the hottest girls in the venue, you really have to be “ON” that night. If you are not, you will most likely not get one of them. The reality is, you will not be on top of your game every night you go out.
What I’m trying to say is that with social circle game you will get consistently more hot girls in your bed. One of the reasons is that in social circles you can “game” more than one girl at the same time and you can lock in your value/gains. Plus, once you sleep with the top-tier girls of your social circle it will make it much easier to sleep with the other hot girls in that social circle. In Social Circle Mastery this is called the waterfall principle.
Another thing is that a lot of women do not go out to night clubs or bars. Instead they might be at dinner parties or exclusive mansion parties. You need access to these places to get these types of women. So you need to know people that can get you in. Which brings up the next point.
2. You understand how friendships work.
How many people actually understand how making friends works and how social circles work? I would guess not that many. People just assume that “over time things just happen.” Understanding how the process of building friendships works is so important and a vital skill set to have because it gives you the ability to decide where you want to take the interaction with a person.
Do you want to make this girl your friend? Or do you want to sleep with her? Once you understand the differences between cold approach and social circle game, you can utilize the knowledge to your advantage.
Also, making friends and connections with other people is really important for business networking and enriching your life. That person might get you access to these exclusive dinner parties or house parties I was talking about earlier.
Every networking party or conference I’ve been to after taking SCM has been so beneficial. I knew exactly what to do to make someone a friend of mine and how get myself introduced to people I wanted to meet.
Once you understand how it works and you have the skill set, you never have to worry about having people around you. You could move to a new city and have new social life within just a couple weeks. You can meet the people you want to meet, whether these are bartenders, executives, hot girls, or gay friends ;)
3. You can get out of the friend zone and still get the girl.
A lot of you guys have this one girl that they are friends with and she is someone they would sleep with as soon they could. It’s just too bad she sees him as a friend and he has ruined all his chances of getting her. It’s impossible to escape the dreaded friend zone. Or is it?
No, you can escape the friend zone and get the girl. You just have to know how. There are two parts to this. The first step is getting out of the friend zone. Most guys think they should just wait for one night where you see an opportunity to sleep with her and then go for it. Or they think that after she dated all these assholes that she will finally realize that she needed this nice guy who was there all along.
NO. There are some problems with these viewpoints. When you are trying to get the girl in bed and you screw up, you will end up with more problems than you had before. Women don’t want to sleep with their guy friends they are not attracted to.
Second, that moment will never come where she is turning 180 and goes for you. There are calculated ways to escape the friend zone (field tested!) and keeping the girl around in your life. The best approach is to limit contact with her. My boy Daxx wrote a post on getting out of the friend zone if you want to know how to do it.
The second step is how you behave once you have escaped the friend zone. Now that you have escaped that black hole you have to know how to get the girl and not make the same mistake again.
The gist is that you have to show her that you are a new person and you’re not the old person she saw as a friend. She now has to see you as this sex-worthy guy so when you first meet her again, flirt and escalate more than you used to do. Let her know you’re interested in her and that you see her more than just a friend.
I could probably give you 10 more reasons why you should learn social circle game, but these three should be convincing enough. It really is the next step to meeting beautiful and high quality women. You think guys like Jeremy Piven meet women through cold approach? No, he gets girls introduced to him and he meets them through friends and acquaintances. We want to play the same kind of game and if you take Social Circle Mastery you know how to play it.
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