Dating Coach Braddock On Flirting and Sending Mixed Signals

Posted at December 26, 2009

One of my mentors is Braddock. I took my first bootcamp with him and The Don that opened up my eyes on what is possible when it comes to meeting women. One thing Braddock is really good at is flirting with women and sending mixed signals.

A lot of game is stolen from women, including sending mixed signals. Guys who are good with women are also very good at this. Before I discovered Love Systems, I was always stuck in the friend zone. I was always hearing from the girl I was interested in, “Do you think John likes me? Sometimes he is really nice and other times I want to kill him. But I like him. It’s so confusing!!!”

You want to be like John.

One of the basic principles behind flirting is sending mixed signals, or like some people call it “push/pull.” Push as in saying something mean and pull as in saying something nice. Nice guys do too much pull, assholes do too much push. Guys who are good with women know when to push and/or when to pull.

If you get really good at sending mixed signals, women will chase you like you have sushi around your neck. A good starting point is reading Braddock’s post on flirting and sending mixed signals.

Related posts:
  1. A Life of a Dating Coach Currently in San Francisco
  2. Braddock on Inner Game
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  • kyletrinh
    Something I come across sometimes when trying to build attraction is somewhere in the conversation she would say ' I usually don't go for ( Insert Ethnicity)'. Or her friend would say 'she doesn't like (Insert Ethnicity). I usually combat by saying, 'Well you/she havent met me yet, you/she probably can't handle me anyways.' Is there a better approach at this? Thanks
  • I would just ignore it and keep going forward.
  • kyletrinh
    Are you going to post an 'Interracial Dating' post soon by any chance?
  • Yes I will. In 2010 I will be focusing a lot on this and I already have some drafts ready for finishing. Is there anything specific you want me to write about? I'm open for suggestions.