There is No Such Thing as a Sausage Fest
As I was reading Big Business’s post on t he difference between a good and bad night is one set, I wanted to expand on that a little bit more. I’m sure you had one of those nights when you went out and you said to yourself: “It’s full of dudes. This sucks.”
While that might be true sometimes, most of the time it isn’t. There is always a bunch of girls somewhere in the venue. Instead of focusing on the guys, you should be focusing on the girls.
Even if the venue has 95 guys and 5 women, there are 5 women who you might be your next friends with benefits or girlfriend. You never know. Like Big Business said, all you need is one girl to make your night worthwhile.
If you go out with me to meet women, you will never hear me say “Damn it’s full of dudes tonight. This venue sucks!” While I certainly do prefer venues with more women than men, I know that I just need one girl. Just think about it. If you go out 3 nights a week and you meet one quality girl every night, then you are meeting 3 girls every week. After a month, that is 12 girls. Even if you just get one girl to go out with you every week, that’s four dates a month. Not bad heh ?
So next time you go out and you think it is a sausage fest, do this: start focusing on the women who are there. It just takes one girl to make your night.
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