Braddock on Inner Game
The Inner Game seminar ran by Braddock and Mr M has been really popular. It’s not very often available but every time it is available you should jump ship and take it. Braddock wrote a post on what his inner game seminar is about.
I remember when I took that seminar for the first time. This was back at the Los Angeles Super Conference in October 2008, more than a year ago. It was the first time they taught the seminar and 6 hours later….we still weren’t done. We had maybe finished 20% of the full seminar.
So I came back a couple months later with more new information presented. What I really respect about Braddock is that he continually keeps adding new information to his seminars. That’s why I was always coming back to his seminars whenever they were available. I’ve taken all of Braddock’s seminars (Inner Game, Social Circle Mastery, and Strippers & Hired Guns) each more than 3 times. Just because there is always new information and the teachings of the material keeps improving over time.
Another reason was that the Inner Game seminar is so packed with information that I couldn’t grasp it all the first time. I realized that my inner game was pretty weak and I needed to work on a lot of things.
The thing with inner game is that learning it is not like putting a band aid on a wound. It takes commitment, good habits, and time to get it fixed. Heck, I’m still working on it. There are always things you can improve about yourself. Looking back, I’ve gotten a lot more confident over the year knowing what I had to do.
If you don’t know what you need to work on, well guess what….you won’t get anything done. Having someone else reveal your blind spots is eye opening. I never realized I had certain limiting beliefs or chinks in my armor. Once I knew what I needed to work on, set my goals and action plan that is when my self confidence went up.
Just do not get lost with all the different things you want to achieve. You thought my goals for 2010 was a lot? Honestly I had to trim down a lot. Also, part of what I learned in the inner game seminar is setting goals and how that affects your confidence levels. That has helped a lot in achieving my goals in 2009 and as a result my confidence level went up.
Once a while I still go over my notes just to remind myself what I need to work on. Here are some things I learned, worked on, and overcame:
- Overcoming limiting beliefs (especially concerning my ethnic background)
- Fear of rejection (approach anxiety)
- What it means to be a man (masculinity)
- Setting boundaries (not being a push-over)
- Setting goals (build confidence over time)
If you ever get a chance to take the seminar, really take it. Read Braddock’s post on his inner game seminar to get familiar.
If you enjoyed this post, please consider to leave a comment or subscribe to the feed and get future articles delivered to your feed reader.
Got the Love Systems Newsletter?
- Useful real life dating advice.
- Get tips from different dating coaches.
- Includes a plan for learning game.
- It's free!
