The Valentines Day Challenge
Valentines day is only a couple weeks away. February 14 might not mean that much to you as a guy, but for some girls it does mean a lot. If they don’t have a date that day or no guy is available then these girls will update their Facebook status with something depressing. Girls will see their friends being unavailable because couples will do something special that day or their friend is on a date.
Either way, it’s a big deal to a lot of girls. Now, you can use this to your advantage. Valentine’s weekend is always busy in bars, clubs, and lounges. So definitely go out that weekend!
But that is not what this post is about. I want to propose a challenge for you and me to get a date for Valentine’s day. One of my goals in 2010 is to go on more dates, twenty to be exactly, so this is also a good excuse for me to sharpen my day game skills and go on dates.
The Challenge
Challenge: Have a date on Valentine’s Day (Sunday, February 14, 2010).
It’s that simple. If you are serious about your dating life in 2010, then you will accept this challenge. Leave a comment behind on this post and I will personally email you and keep you in check. You are free to do the same to me.
Do not come up with excuses why you cannot do this. Being good with women is a skill you can learn. I used this same challenge myself for the last 2 years to push myself to become better with women.
Honestly, this year will be probably be the toughest year for myself. Just because I will be working every single weekend leading up to Valentine’s day. I will be at the Los Angeles Bootcamp with Braddock and The Don (Jan 29-31), Day Game workshop with Jeremy Soul in San Francisco (Feb 6), 1-on-1 training in the weekend of Valentine’s day, and another Day Game workshop with Jeremy Soul in Los Angeles in the same weekend. Clients always comes first is one of the Love Systems values. So I cannot just leave that person and do my own thing.
Either way, I will figure something out to get myself a date on Valentine’s. Even if that means going out on Valentine’s day and try to set up a date the same night. I hope you can use the same desire I have to be good with women.
If I don’t have a date on Valentine’s day, I will give everyone who committed to this challenge by leaving a comment behind on this post a free 15 minute phone consultation. You can verify this by asking Jeremy Soul, since he will be staying at my place that week for a couple days.
Here are some quick tips:
- Do day game instead of night game (bars, clubs, lounges). It’s easier to get dates.
- Meet women close to your own area. It is easier to setup dates for women who live near you.
- Have more than one date lined up. There is always a chance a woman might flake on you.
- Setup dates a couple days before Valentine’s. Don’t do it a week before, that’s too soon. Instead, max 3-4 days before Valentine.
Let’s get it started by committing yourself to it. Leave a comment behind and I will start keeping you in check over email. Contact me if you personally want to work with me. I’m too busy with live training and 1on1s till Valentine’s day so I can’t help you in person, but we can definitely talk on the phone.
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Challenge accepted!
Last year I had just started learning game (around december 2008 actually) and i did the same challenge just for fun. And it was fun :) Got my first makeout ever and more fun stuff followed on that day.
ok, bonsai your on. ill take this challenge and do more day game even though i keep getting blown out . i also realize that tourists are best for day game in my experience. cus they need to leave the next day and want a same night lay but i usually mess that up by not seeding a date
Count me in. Looks easy enough!
I'm down.
Hey Bonsai,
Great challenge for some of the new guys and I'll throw my hat in the ring as well.
sup Bonsai, I'm in.
Count me in buddy.
Count me in brother.
Count me in too, as you remember me saying Im after a stripper this time, so I got untill Feb 14 to sleep with one.
Challenge accepted here! IT'll be hard since I'm gonna be in Europe the 1st week of Feb, but I WILL get a date!
Count me in!
Awesome guys. You all should have received an email from me where I keep you in check. Let's get down to business and complete this challenge!
Hey Bonsai, I commented on the instructor blog but not here. I’m down for the challenge, great idea.
I'm in too. I posted comment on Instructor Blogs instead of here so I didn't get the email. Hope its not too late to join in on the fun!!