Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: I get this question a lot from my fellow Asian brothers. So I’m going to tackle this question to the bone and be prepared to face some cold hard truth.
Some Caucasian girls will never date an Asian guy. They might have their own reasons for that, like they simply aren’t attracted to Asian guys, religion, family views, etc. Then you will have a group of white girls who will ONLY date Asian guys. They simply love the idea that they are dating an Asian guy and want nothing else. Yes they do exist.
However, majority of Caucasian girls have never dated an Asian guy before. Whenever I’m dating a Caucasian girl, I hear the same phrase a lot: “You’re my first Asian guy.”
You can reflect that group of girls in a bell curve, just like I did in my post where I explained you will not get every girl. I want you read that post first before you continue with this article. It will make you understand this article a lot better.
The idea is that some girls will never date you, but a lot of girls will. Accept this reality. Just look at your own preferences. There are certain types of girls you will never date, but there are also types of girls you will always go for. Then there’s a group of girls you might want to date, but perhaps have never experienced before.
Same idea applies to women on how they view dating guys.
Like for myself, I will never date a African-American girl with a very dark skin tone. I’m simply not attracted to them. On the other hand, I’m very much attracted to Caucasian women. In the middle there’s a huge pool of skin tones and types of girls I would date. For example, I haven’t dated an Indian girl yet but I’m open to the idea.
Now look at the bell curve below to see what I mean.
There’s a small group of women that will never date Asian guys. That’s the red-zone. Whenever you encounter one of those, just move on. There’s no need to waste time.
On the other end is the group of women who’s preferences is to date Asian guys. That’s the green-zone. If you meet one of those, you’re in luck!
The majority of girls is going to be in the middle (gray-zone). These girls might have not dated an Asian guy before, but would be open to do so. This is where you will need to be a little bit better than the average Asian guy to get these girls. In other words, read this blog and learn some Love Systems teachings and you’re already way ahead of the majority.
An interesting side-tangent. You or some other Asian guy should be thanking me if you end up dating the same girl I’ve dated. Why? Simply because once a Caucasian girl has dated an Asian guy before and the relationship was good, she is more likely to date an Asian guy in the future. The first Asian guy for a Caucasian girl will set the precedence of how likely that same Caucasian girl will date another Asian guy.
So if the first Asian guy was starstruck, other Asian brothers are in luck. Otherwise we might have some work left to do. That doesn’t mean that if the first relationship was bad, that the future is all dark and bad. It just means that the next Asian guy will have be a little better than the previous guy.
That’s why when I ask a girl if she has dated an Asian guy before and she says yes, I know that dating her is going to be fairly easy compared to a girl who has never dated an Asian guy before. The guy before me had to go through all the hoops and break down barriers of having her date an Asian guy. That includes family issues, friends, and so on.
Here’s a legitimate hottie, Megan Fox, saying that she would love to date Rain (Asian pop star). She is a prime example of a gray-zone girl. Never dated an Asian, but willing to do so.
If I had to summarize this post, it would be this: Some Caucasian will not ever date an Asian guy. Some girls will only date ONLY Asian guys. Most white girls have not dated an Asian guy before but are willing to date one. They are the majority.
So yes, Caucasian / white girls do like Asian guys.
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