Do Caucasian / White Girls Like Asian Guys?

Anonymous

Very interesting post. Thanks.

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Thanks for reading!

http://www.adventuresofwhim.com/ whim

So if Rain had said yes… one of us would be dating Megan Fox right now, right? =)

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Me yes, you no.
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- Jeong Soo
  
  I am a short asian guy. I have had terrible trouble with white women all my life and I was born here. I have read Magic Bullets and the part on evolution and mating scares me. If women will always pick the healthiest and most robust male to procreate, then why would they go with a guy like me? Would they not go with a 6ft white guy? If that is true in that book then I really do not have a chance. What’s in it for them? Its a two way street. That book really confuses me. What is your take?
  - http://asianmendatingwhitewomen.com Johnny Cheng
    
    Hey bro,
    
    We’re not cavemen anymore! Man is a social animal, in fact, it’s part of what makes us so unique. Being tall, strong and athletic is great, but if you’re anti-social and can’t get along with people, then what good is it?
    
    This alpha male thing is completely over rated. There really isn’t such a thing as an alpha male. You could say there are dominant males and it doesn’t all come down to size or strenght.
    
    In fact, all great playboys trough time have not been strong or particularly handsome. Instead they have been great conversationalists with the ability to create strong emotions in women.
    - Joe
      
      I think what Jeong Soo is saying is that the perception of beauty is much stronger if you’re a white male and the least unfortunately is the Asian male (and I’m not saying I agree with this) in English speaking countries (except maybe Canada). I don’t know why but many women (even some Asian women) in English speaking countries seem to be least attracted to Asian guys but most attracted to white guys, I think the media has something to do with this…we rarely see Asian guys as sex symbols (except in Asian countries). @Johnny Cheng, I wish more people could think like you…you’re right there are certain people (regardless of their look) seem to not have any problems with finding dates. Obviously these are confidence people who aren’t afraid to take risks. Although, I still feel there seems to be this disadvantage if you’re an Asian male because of the negative perception in the media about Asian men and the unbalanced of interracial couples compared to the women…which is not very helpful.
  - jessie
    
    You’re a really nice guy, if you are attracted to white girls, go for it! I ‘m a white girl, and I like my japanes lover!!! Everything about him!!!! I just FELL in love with him, just a short time after that I discovered I liked Japanese guys…

charliegol

@BONSAI

how about middle eastener guys

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The same idea applies to any other race. Some girls won’t date middle eastern guys, some only, some are open. This is pretty much an universal concept in the dating context. Don’t worry man, you’re fine :)
- charliegol
  
  Thanks for the reply!
  Excellent blog!
  It helped a lot!
  
  keep up the good work man!

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Dude, excellent post. Your bell curve says it all very elegantly. Keep up the good work!

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Thanks David. I’m a fan of your work too.

Ethnic PUA

I love the bell curve graphic! I’d be willing to bet the house on the fact that most Asian guys that lack experience would incorrectly assume that the red-zone actually makes up the bulk of the curve. I know that’s the way I saw things when I first started!

It’s kind of sad really.. many Asian dudes still use that kind of thinking as an excuse NOT to open (“Oh, she probably would never date an Asian guy anyway!”). It’s amazing how your negative beliefs can change so rapidly once you begin to get some in-field experience.

guest

I am the opposite, i am asian but i only dated white girls before, never dated asian or anything else. It depends on your personality, your look, where you are and such. Be yourself, be lay back. I grew up at a place which has no asian female, so… maybe one reason but i dunno, dont really care lol i always think its like that theory that if you want to find your key so much you can never find it, if you dont care it will appear. If a person is so desperate, whatever you looking for will disappear. Relax, live your life, work hard. If you meant to you will, if you dont,you dont. simple as that

Gycrk

Honestly, I think it has a lot to do with upbringing. A lot of western women are told specific things from their families and on TV and in media. All we see all day are white men and white women falling in love. I live in Asia now, and before I left I honestly can say there was never a moment I would consider dating an Asian guy. My perception on that has done a complete flip now that I live in Asia.
It really does have a lot to do with the environment. Now that I live in Asia ( and i know Asian guys in Asia are different than Asian guys is the US/Canada) I see the way some western guys treat Asian women here versus the way my Asian male friends treat me. Now I am completely sold on Asian guys. You rock.

Don’t give up Asian guys! Caucasian girls have heard a lot of stereotypes about you, especially from Caucasian guys, but we live in such multicultural societies these days that anything is possible if you give it a shot. Chances are, if you tell a white girl you like her she will be a little shocked, but she will probably try to make it work. Plus, I am currently trying to convert all my friends into liking Asian guys, so there is hope! :)

Ashley

Yes It’s sad but true. I’m a ‘western lady’: It was never told directly to me but my family would not like if I dated someone not Caucasian. (Mainly Hispanics and Blacks). Drives me nuts!
Rongee2

Out of all female races Caucasian women are the most Aggressive and tough..it is no wonder they like the opposite in Asian ales, feminine and small penised ! Opposites attract ! (Unlike males of other races Aisan males are not Naturally masculine and have the smallest penises, so they have to pump iron and act tough to look the part ! I have seen pumped up asian guys with white girls……both are fakes ! One geting faked by the other !)
truth

why do you have to “convert” other girls to do something unnatural like race mixing? keep your problems for you!

zobo

This is very interesting…
I am European and very much love asian culture. Especially after seeing all these famous South Korean singers and actors, I became very open to dating asian guys.
I think it is because I had such an interest in the general culture, that I became more exposed the current pop cultures as well. And thus became familiar with the idea of Asian men and got used to the way act. They just became more attractive to me and I now prefer most asian guys over any other race. I have sort of dated a half Chinese-half English guy before, but he was a model and very confident. I get the impression that most asian guys wouldn’t approach me. However, If it is true that they actually might like a girl like me, then I would wish to encourage them! But how? Without come across as too forward or overbearing?
I am half English-half Italian…

David

Well…wish you could tell most of white girls…zobo…
jessie

I now know I’m attracted to handsome asians, now.
Ganmichael

Waive your hand and say hi too him with a smile:) this will get his attention. Than let him come too you. Generally speaking; Asian guys are shy at first like most ppl are at first. If this doesn’t work, just be friendly too him( treat it like aquaintances) til he breaks out of that shiness shell he is in. From Handsome Canadian born Chinese stud from Toronto, Ontario, Canada hahaha lol

Deb

Hey!
This was a great article and very true!
I realize that this was posted over a year ago, but I stumbled upon it while aimlessly surfing the net and I thought I would leave my thoughts.

I am a white female living in the USA and I am also an Asian Studies Major at my school. ;)

I am very attracted to Asian guys, but at the same time I am not attracted to Latino men at all. My sister is the opposite though: likes Latinos but not Asians, so I know each girl can be different in what she likes. This is why I thought the bell curve graph was so realistic.

Once in high school I dated a guy who was half Asian, but other than that, I’ve only ever dated white guys. The only reason I haven’t dated more Asian guys is because I have never been asked out by any. I wish Asian guys were less inhibited about approaching women. I know that rejection is scary, but the more you try, the more successful you will be!

With white guys, it has always been really easy for me to pass hints; some white guys could tell I liked them without me even saying anything. However, with Asian guys, I’ve never gotten any to ask me out, even after flirting! I also know that times are changing and some girls ask guys out now, but most girls want the guy to make the move. I usually try to help a guy out by flirting and dropping hints, but I need a guy to meet me half way or at least reciprocate.

Acq888

Very nice comment Deb. It sounds like you’re the kind of white girl I’m looking for! :) One that’s open-minded and has some in-depth knowledge of the Asian culture. What part of the US are you in?
Jonvnguyen

i’d have flirted with you :)
haha

thanks…..you gave me more confidence ^^
Rongee2

as I have written many times before on this site, most white women seem to be bisexually Racist ! What do i mean, the closest colour to white is yellow, so even if Asian men have the smallest penises, and least masculine features you’d date them ! Have you tried real men, (apart from white men) , Black or Indian ? Real men, not pretty boys like Asian males ! But you haven’t obviously, because like I said, of ALL the races in the world White women are the most bisexual, have you seen a white woman in bed with an Asian man from far ? like two women !!!!!!!!!
Leo

well then what are we waiting for?
Dragonballevosucked

@71f8e010aefd9eaf5c32bfdccf5309d7:disqus Most girls are insecure which is why women like yourself flirt. Try to be honest, and talk to the guy instead of flirting. Often times, guys feel like they have a crush when women flirt with them. And if you’re very attractive, most likely you won’t be asked out by an asian guy thinking you’re already taken but a white guy who’s all gung ho won’t care. I’m a very good looking asian guy btw and there were many many times I thought the white girl was into me, but I was mislead and I’ve been so depressed and I even thought about killing myself.
Superbon

I’m pretty sure you’re an Asian guy pretending to be a white female.
jay

R u into brown(South Asian) guys at all?I am fair skinned, 5’10″ 170lbs athletic.

Polosi

I only want white girls or Asian girls for sex only. I don’t want the commitment. Sound good? girls for sex only. I don’t want the commitment. Sound good?

Amnesty

No. Sounds dumb.

Oleg16

i am asian guy but i do not think the relationship with the white girl will last. in my life i dated only white girls. i dumped them, or eventually they dumped me. so from my experience i can tell that for marriage white women are not good, or there would be more work to do compared if you marry an asian woman. also major problem with white women, they will never understand asian part of you.

Mas22

I can see how you could feel this way, but I have to disagree. I’m white and I date Asian guys and I am so open to learning about the “Asian part”. I love seeing and finding out about things outside of my upbringing and, and I am fascinated by Asian culture. I do not believe a marriage couldn’t work out, I just believe you’d have to put just a tad more effort to understand each other.
- Jonvnguyen
  
  i want to be your friend. i’m an asian guy that loves white woman :) write back if you like.
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    - kitsune
      
      ignorant racist
    - Guest
      
      you are just beautiful! Nuff said!
Lyah

My boyfriend is Asian and he doesn’t even care about the Asian part of him. I’m constantly asking him to to speak to me in his language (which he hardly knows) and tell me about the culture, but he doesn’t care. His parents immigrated here a few years before he was born, and in all honestly, he views himself as an American, not an Asian. Saying that these types of relationships won’t last is ignorant. My parents are from different cultures, my father is Norwegian and my mother is Czech – while both white, they have different cultures and traditions yet they survived and have been married 30 years. ASIAN PART?! What a joke you are, I am saddened that there is someone so ignorant in the world still. We are all the same, all human. Don’t you even try to understand where her family came from? Her Indian, European, Jewish heritage? It isn’t all about you! No wonder your relationships are doomed.
- http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
  
  @f5c5943d5d75b3b21eb2b7b0912a3550:disqus , you gotta understand, asian men have needs ok?! White women are more discriminating because they can be racist, which is why white woman/asian man couples seem to get in divorce the most.
  - haha
    
    not all people are the same dude. Even Obama can be the president of us. so why cant an asian guy date a white girl??? ^^
    - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
      
      Well you’re a dork, if you feel there are a lot of asian guys with white chicks, good for you, but I don’t see how they can compete with pretty white boys! There are very few asian guys with white girls, and most of the ones that like asian dudes are fat, ugly, bisexual, transgender or nerdy anime freaks!!
    - Alleluia
      
      Dude, why would you take such a pessimistic view of all the girls out there that are open to dating asian guys? Sure they’re not racist or ignorant but what’s wrong with that? All girls are different too, you have no right just insulting women all over the world with those derogatory terms just because of their dating choices.No matter what YOU think, those girls who date asian guys aren’t any less beautiful than other girls who don’t. What do you mean by pretty withe boys either? Not every white guy out there looks like Brad Pitt. Ok, so most Asian guys aren’t freakishly tall or have pale skin. Why would that be bad for most women who are generally shorter than men and like guys who at least look like they get some time in the sun? Very few white girls? What, is that a statistic from like 1930? There are more Asian men than Caucasian women on this planet. It’s statistically impossible for MOST caucasian girls to never date an asian guy. And if you’re just trying to bag on us Asian guys, guess who has martial arts, good grades, nice food, natural tan, and parent who care? Ya, I thought so.
    - Amnesty
      
      Yes, thanks Alleluia! I am an attractive, slim 40 something green eyed brunette writer who speaks Japanese (a little) and would never ever be considered fat, ugly, bisexual or nerdy. I do like anime, but I also love Akira Kurosawa and more current Japanese cinema. I wouldn’t, however, be caught dead with a guy that calls women chicks or who has such a misogynistic feeling about white women in general. Oh, and I have never given a second thought to Brad Pitt – not my type. Please don’t stereotype women of any color or age. We are all individual, as you men all are and we like to be with men who “get” that and who may have an interest in how amazing we are. Just like we we may be interested in you for who you are inside and what you have to teach us.
    - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
      
      Amnesty and Alleluia, in the U.S. asian men are the most single out of all other races and I’m just pointing out the ratio and not the statistics (most likely white men are single the most because there are more of them). If you say race isn’t the problem, how come there are far more asian women with white men (and not just here in the U.S. but all over the world)??. Generally, women are the ones that choose the mate while the men try to mate with any female, so obviously there’s bias, racism, discrimination, negative stereotypes for asian men especially in the U.S. I’m just being honest, why would you be hurt by the truth?!
    - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001680102181 Layla Icecream
      
      oh that sounds so sad TT__TT wait I am 14 y.o (have no idea how I ended up here) & I am a girl lol and I always like Asian guys I think they are so much cuter ^_^ but I am always to shy to talk to one >..< because well I am too shy so maybe there is a girl that does like you but is just to shy hehe ^_-♥♥♥♥
      Oh i also put my picture so that you see that I am not anime freak and other stuff you meantioned about girls that like asian guys♥
    - Rongee2
      
      sorry, you said Cute ? You just proved that you are Bisexual ! Why ? bec. you are attracted to the least masculine featured race of all men, and who have the smallest penises ! Don’t worry, most white girls are Bi like you ! (read other replies of mine, you’ll understand better ! )
    - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000302500353 Jake Navarro Rumbaoa
      
      I saw your facebook profile :) i think you really like asian guys and thats so cool :> i hope i can meet a girl like you :) you’re being too specific on asian guys, there are many kinds. :) I’m just wondering..do white girls like 50/50 asian and spanish guys? I’m a 3/4 asian and 1/4 spanish :) My grandfathers from father’s and mother’s side are spanish descents. Well, many of the guys here in the philippines are like me :)
    - Hot dog
      
      This is to clarify the BIG mistake that ppl have:
      
      - The proportion of AM/WF is less- NOT because white males are more attractive or size factor as invented by many western men, its because “Asian men are less interest in white women in general”. Normal Asian are not interest in white Caucasian men too,
      
      - just go check it out, 99% of those Asian women who date
      western guys out there are lower than avg type or having mental
      problems herself(unless she is a Hooker who rip-off Western men for living
      & aim to get certain material benefits in return).
      
      - If an Asian girl go out with a white man, that means she can be fcuk
      by ANY Asian guys on the street too. These w men are considered as having Asian men’s junks but they want to admit, however, those w girls who date Asian guys are usually the hot ones.
    - ron
      
      sorry buddy, you say size is invented ? Have you measured up to a Black man or Indian man ? Plus, physically, the LEAST masculine traits of ALL races are in Asian men ! Cute, pretty boys, but not Real men !
    - Kim Daniel1995
      
      I’m Korean 6’2 and 18 years of age, senior in high school, I recently committed to play football for Oklahoma State University and am about to be the first asain Free safety for the team, I guess I’m fortunate and God had blessed me, and I’ve dated plenty of white girls… I will say I do look different my eyes are not squinted as much they almost look like those of caucasians maybe that’s why I really don’t know? All I know is chicks dig me and a lot of guys envy me but are still my friends and I wouldn’t change anything about me even with all the stereotypical lies that go around its just who I am. If asain guys weren’t so timid I guarantee they could get into many more relationships with any race but I know for a fact Alot are very shy.
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    - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
      
      You’re absolutely right, there’s truth to stereotypes. I like your post. Thanks for bringing that up about asian men being shy. A lot of white women automatically assume asian men are too effeminate because a lot of asian men are smaller than white women physically and therefore this relationship hardly ever works. Asian men are just too much the same for white chicks for some reason and there is just not enough chemistry for this pairing…it’s never about love, it’s usually about lust because most white women don’t like asian men and vice versa.
    - K Fri
      
      Mathew, as a white male I just want to beat you because you seem like a nerd. Asian guys do fine. By your logic, I wouldn’t have turned down a girl in my life. Your logic is flawed and shitty, and you come off as disrespectful. I also call women chicks occasionally. Sorry Alleluia. Statement made. Rock on.
    - ron
      
      If what you are saying is true, that what you are interested in is on the inside of men…….., what do you say to ‘Size Queens’ ? (White women who only have ALL kinds of sex and felate to completion Black men ?) So, you just put your foot in by proving my point, (except for the size queens), that ALL other white women are Bisexually racist, because they are attracted to small penised, least masculine feature males who are Asian ? ! Doesn’t real Masculinity and Penis size matter ? C’mon Bi girl ! Have you seen a white woman in bed with an Asain male ? They both look like two women ! ha ha ha !
    - Anonymous
      
      Also Alleluia, white people celebrate holidays every month in the U.S., but blacks complain they have the shortest month February…well boohoo, at least you got one! Mexicans and Latins only have 1 day out of the year…cinco de mayo! What do Asians have?…(nods) Exactly!!
    - Boycolour
      
      well, that’s why China now own the world…
    - Rongee2
      
      Martial arts are because you guys cannot fight like real men, you invented a way to fight ! C’mon, do you need to teach a fish to swim ? ! You guys have the smallest dicks and least masculine feautres, sexually unsatisfactory ! Good grades are good, but real women (non White women mostly) know what a real man is ! Tan…..can you have sex with a tan ? white girls like you all because you’rll are like feminine pretty boys !
    - star wars
      
      Look who’s talking? An uneducated wanker. Get a life, if possible get an extra life just in case you flunk the first life. Suck your own tiny dick.
    - Danny
      
      I know martial arts.. I’m asain.. Full Korean..my “dick” is 6.5in.. Which makes me above average since average is 5.2-6.3in… You do realize that it all has to do with nutrition? My dad is the best weight loss surgeon in the nation (yes the U.S.) he’s 5’6. He told me if asain people drank milk( or got calcium) ate more foods than just rice and small portions of meat and worked out like I did when I was younger they all wouldn’t be that small.. I’m currently dating Miss Texas and she’s hella fine for a white girl! I’m about to play football for Ollahoma State and I have girls all over me and I’m already hooked up for college.. I’d rather not go after a girl who just cares about sex cause those girls are tramps. Basically I’m asain I’m offended by your stereotypical manner and I have no issues “getting laid”
    - kitsune787
      
      ummm,..so NOT true about the size! Sorry you think that to be true…but I have definitely found that to be a myth.
      sounds like someone’s jealous!
    - Guest
      
      Dude, im an asian and im tall and very muscular. Stop trying to put other asians down. You are a true idiot if you dont think asian men cant get american girls. Search Simple Pickup on youtube. Dam… its ignorant people like you that makes me so annoyed.
    - Amnesty96
      
      Rongee2, I just have to jump in here. I am a white woman, very attractive (yes, true!) and find Asian men to be the most handsome men on earth. Every culture has its beautiful people and its ugly people of course. Asian men can be rugged, alpha male types or have softer features. So can white men. And black and red men too BTW. It’s all a very personal preference and everyone is different. Get off your strange and ridiculous racist snipe fest. No white woman in their right mind would date a man like you, who has such an ugly little mind.
    - jay
      
      R u into brown(South Asian) guys at all?I am fair skinned, 5’10″ 170lbs
    - Guest
      
      Seriously, you have a small brian, only a stupid person says crap like this, grow up dickhead.
    - jessie
      
      don’t offend white girls that like asian guys, you stupid!!!!! So what if people are fat, ugly, bisexual, transgender, or nerdy anime freaks!!!!! You’re the worst!!!! ‘Cause YOU are the racist here!!!! Maybe that’s the reason why they don’t like you, you ugly prick!!!! I’m more for that person Alleluia, oh, and Amnestia, though, they says it nicer then I do…. BUT I MEAN IT!!!! Seriously, what’s wrong with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!URGH URGH URGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
      I LOVE MY ASIAN GUY (hotter then ANY other men, and good personality, I would die for him, do anything for him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND SO WHAT IF I’M WHITE GIRL, AND LOVE A ASIAN BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOOOOOOOOVE HIM AND YOU JUST ROT IN HELL FUCK OFFFFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You’ve got a stupid name, btw, yeah, fuck you, fuck you fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m offended, not only ’cause even if I’m not ugly and stuff, there are people who can’t help being it.
      
      Sorry for the rudeness, people. STOP DISCRIMINATION AND I’LL STOP MY RUDENESS FUCKING DISCRIMINATOR PEOPLE GO DIE OR HATE SOMEONE FOR NO REASON AND ACTUALLY BE THE HATED, DIEEEEEEEEEEEE AND DO IT PAINFULL IN THE MOTHEFUCKING HELL I’m sorry, but that’s how I feel….
      NOT THAT YOU BROUGHT IT NICELY, mat,jon, whatever.
      
      I don’t think you meant it that way I hope, or I write your last will, if ya d’like it,hehheh…
      
      Even if it where stats, I’m pissed, you know why!!!!
      
      I’ve calmed down now, it’s oke, you’re just pissed you can’t get a girlfriend. So you take it on others… I just told what I wanted to say, in the spur of the moment, it gets a bit out of control, but if I conctroll myself, I don’t let my emotions come out, so, at least I’M honest. Sheesh, I can’t stop offending you, sorry, this is the nicest I’ve tried<.< I can better, but then I wouldn't be honest, to be honest. URGH you irritate me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      So, I hope you find a nice girl, whatever she may look like, and try to be more optimistic, I'll try to be nicer, wait, you' l try to be nicer too, and seriously try things better then I, 'cause I wanna say what I mean and write it off of me and stuff, so mostly it doesn't work, but if you're nicer, you can get a better girlfriend, who likes you from at least the inside, I really like it if my boyfriend scolds me if I'm being rude, 'cause honestly, I don't wanna be like that, and maybe you want to be nicer too, and you just need to have a girlfriend who looks after you, seriously people, search for someone you like, don't think of the negative things. what I say may be negative, but isn't meant like that, ehrm, I gotta stop now, before I insult you to death.
    - anonymous
      
      Can someone translate her post to human??
    - Guest
      
      now you can’t read goof ball?
    - ron
      
      Jessie, your another Bisexual woman who loves Asian men, and why ? because you like small penised, non masculine featured men ! You say size does not matter ? then what about ‘Size queens’, white women who only have sex with Black men ? ! The truth is bitter, but your right I have seen gorgeously beutiful white and other colorued women with pretty Asian boys ! Maybe they treat them better for the lack of a real penis, and these woen like to say they can take the whole penis in their mouth !
    - Guest
      
      THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BISEXUALITY….. godddamnit you are dumb and superficial your pond is about an inch deep…. pretty boring pretty damn fast.
    - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
      
      I didn’t say there’s anything wrong with bisexuality but if you notice the negative stereotypes for asian men is that many young asian men appear effeminate looking, so therefore bisexuality and asian men correlate with each other, that’s what I meant, no offense.
    - kitsune787
      
      that is the most ignorant thing I have ever heard. Bisexuality and effemininity have nothing to do with each other. I also think that you clearly have a gross mis- understanding of correlation and causality.
    - WF Rocks
      
      you really need some education, you sound more uneducated by the moment with your posts.
    - valerie
      
      Mathew Johnson is right on ! Want real men, try White, or Black or Indian ! Real Masculine features with Real Dicks ! Every white and other non Asian woman who has even momentarily been sexually attracted to an Asian male is Bisexual ! Why, these poor pretty boys have the smallest dicks and least masculine features ! Nuf said ? !
    - John
      
      Matthew Johnson you’re such a sad reject that it’s eye opening. Clearly you haven’t been around, some of the girls that date asian mens and are opened to asian mens are some of the most beautiful and hot girls you’ll ever see, and that goes for all ethnicity. Asian, white, latinas, black, etc. I mean. You have to be really stupid if you truly believe in that BS you’ve been feeding yourself. I suggest you go out to the real world instead of being stuck up and delusional. Not everyone is racist or narrowminded. Stereotypes are just stereotypes, there are lots of beautiful people with good personality out there. And clearly not everyone is as dumb as you.
    - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
      
      I’m sorry John, I’m just being honest ok? I can’t believe you’re hurt by the truth.
    - kitsune787
      
      the truth and fact are two different things. Sorry that you seem to have been burned but your truth is NOT based on facts. it’s based on racist stereotypes and whiny “feel sorry for me” attitudes. Man up and stop bagging on guys who are different than you.
    - Guest
      
      dude, you are truly sad, believing in your own BS, very sad indeed.
    - ron
      
      You are perfectly right John ! But, the problem is, that all those beautiful non Asian women who date Asian men are Bisexual ! They are attracted to the smallest penised, least masculine featured of all men ! If you think size does not matter, why are there ‘Size Queens’ ? (white women who only have sex with Black men) If these women go for size, then the opposite, NON size queens, go for Asain pretty boys !
    - ron
      
      your somewhat right, but I have seen the most gorgeous blue eyed blondes with these small dicks !
      how come ? simple. Unlike women from other races who know what masculinity and big penises are, white women don’t know that in general. Only size queens with black guys. but the overwhelming majority of white women like Feminine featured pretty boys ! Get it ? !
    - Littdna317
      
      There is no need to be jealous dude. White women are beginning to see the unbeatable values of Asian men, and I think that is so frickin’ wonderful. There is a stereotype that white men like to cheat in relationships. Asian men take their relationships seriously. Then, that is what you white men get. Your women are going to us because they are tired of being cheated on. Of course, there are white women who are sluts too, so they would still stick with you cuz they cheat too. However, white women who are looking serious lovers are smart to go for Asian men. We treat them right. We are loving, caring, and loyal. I assume Asian-loving white women are less likely to cheat in relationships either.
  - jessie
    
    heh, I’m attracted to asian guys, I don’t know why. Fetish? So you can n’t say such thing, I’m white and the only discriminating I do is positive !!! Really only Asians for me!
    - Sky Grey
      
      Hi jessie, Could u pls write few lines to sky.grey@live.com i’d like to know you more. Thanks.
    - Anhmuon488
      
      hi Jessie,
      I wish to have a white girlfriend like you. I am asian and would like to date white girl but no luck yet ! If you are still available, please email me at
      anhmuon488@yahoo.com
  - ron
    
    That’s because of failing sex ! How can you expect Asian men with the smallest penises and least masculine features to satisfy any woman ? ! (read Quora.com, J. T Tran, the Asian dating coach, even he states that Asian men are sexually unsatisfying ! Of course, the other thing is that White women are the most Bisexual. And, you are right, if white women were not racist the’d be with the most masculine, biggest penis race of all, Blacks ! to choose the least shows how Bisexually racist white women are 1
Guest

ROFL, u mad? dont down the color cuz you cant keep it deep.
Loveloverpao

I wish I were asian, white girls tend to differ from the things you are used to do, but trust me: I love Japanese culture, and really admire what they do. There is girls who are Asian on the inside, ^•^ and that are beautiful too.
Lisa

I’ve been married to an asian guy for 8 years now. We have 2 gorgeous children. We have a great relationship and we’re still in love with each other. I love the asian part of him, it’s just who he is.

aduser1

If you are interested in AMWF, this link is the grand collection on this topic:http://fafast.com/play?white+girls+asian+guys

Chetcaogu

haha…recently ran into the red zone…NOT FUN.

bharath bobby

hi im bharath bobby,

im an indian, i live india, chennai and im looking for an white girl in my life

Tyler

im a girl, See im mixed wit black white n native american but I am mostly getting confused with asian cuz sorry but im a yellow but any ways yea im a girl who prefers asian guys, becuz I lk asian cul ty ure n I like asian eyes, I thnk they are very pretty and acttractive

Crystal

well I have to say that I am the ‘green’ part of that diagram ^_^. I am attracted most to asian guys. I just think that they are better looking than other races (and from the ones I know, a lot of them are respectful and nice). I’m a white girl and i’m not really attracted to white guys at all. For some reason I get the impression from a lot of white guys that they are not that respectful/considerate of your feelings (not ALL white guys, but a lot of them that I have known). so yeah, it’s all about personal preference. My fiance is asian. so yeah, there are a lot of white girls that date asian guys.

Mel

I’m in the green zone!! but I find Asian guys are hard to find… maybe they don’t know I’m in love with them :P

Goku

Where do you live, lets hang out.:)
TOPkey

Totally same deal over here
Jean

then you have to let them know! XD

Vanessa Jörgensen

I am a white girl that lives in the center of the farm state. I have spent some of my life in Japan and plan on spending most of it there, so it’s only natural in MY mind that I will probably get into a serious relationship with a japanese man.
From all the comments I’m seeing, I think both genders interested think the same about the other. At first, I just thought asian men didn’t go outside their race for sociology reasons.

I never depict races when I date men, to me it depends on his character. But I do know that a lot of my white friends do because of where I am from, which is packed with different races. And yes, that does sound kind of ironic. It’s just again from sociology that most people think if there are more race mixing to equal amounts, then discrimination is decreased, which is pretty much the opposite.

There are not many asian men here though, so we never talk about the issue a lot.

I would baseically classify myself in the gray zone. :)

Sarah

There may be quite a lot of controversy over what I am about to write but this is my personal experience of Asian men and also the stereotypes that may put caucasian women or any other woman not from an asian background off from dating an asian man..

First of all about the stereotype, the first asian man I ever dated and I was told that I would be abused and beaten up and be isolated and was strongly advised by all to not go ahead

Also there is those asian men who will use european women either by trickery or financial pay off to gain papers to stay in the country that they wish to stay in/gain nationality

This is what causes some would be asian daters to run the opposite direction

-

My personal experience – put into short = Asian men Play with white girls and Marry the Asian girl

So far all asian men who I know who have dated white girls have never had any intention on marrying them, either because there family would reject them and kick them out from the family for doing so… or because they just feel an asian woman would be a much better wife (as they have been trained to be a good house-wifey from birth) – although if I was to be less sarcastic I would say that they prefer to marry a asian woman because they will be more understanding as they’re from the same culture

You will also find that asian men believe “white girls are easy” so they’re good practice for pre-marital relations before they get there arranged marriage

And as to my stereotype mentioned earlier about Asian men being violent – well my first ever relationship where my boyfriend was from Srilanka he was abusive, a drunk and also smoked cannabis on a regular basis, the first 6months of the relationship was bliss but after that his violent side started to appear and his drinking habit started to show as something of a problem.. he also stopped me from seeing all of my friends, and I used to walk in the street with my face down because if I even glanced at another man I would be interrogated. As well as the physical violence there was the mental manipulation that lead my self-confidence to - 0 and the “feeding up of me” I gained 5 stone plus in less than a year, even when I tried to diet he sabotaged it and then would continue to abuse me verbally about my weight gain.
When he told a family member about me he was instantly told that all “white girls are whores” and he should get an arranged marriage and if he didn’t leave me that he’d be disowned, he didn’t leave me, he just pretended he had left me. He was obsessed by money and a workaholic, when he wasn’t working he was drinking and I let him live with me rent free and never wanted for anything from him (even though he bought his own house in our time together) All I wanted was his love, I had pet birds and he killed some of them, not when I was there but when I’d get back home from college or visiting my mum I’d find them dead and he’d admit to having killed them, it broke everything inside me as I have always been very caring of all of lifes creatures and had wanted to work in animal care

His aunt was right – I did leave him, after all his familys racism, prejudist ways and his abuse I finally managed to leave him

After that I dated an arabic man which the relationship ended but on good terms

and my last relationship was with another asian man and another mistake – he was from Pakistan and it turned out that even though he’d asked me to marry him and we were making wedding plans (he had also made me pregnant and I miscarried), that he had a wife and daughter back in Pakistan and had also made himself out to be younger than his age, which ended up being absolutely sickening the age difference.

After all this I still only find myself attracted to Asian/Arabic/Middle Eastern men but now my attentions are much more away from Asian men. Perhaps I’ve become cynical, and I may get some quite outraged responses, but everything what I have written is from my own experience and it’s the truth

Positives about Asian men and Asian culture – loyalty to family, good sense of morals (when true to there culture)

Sarah

Oh also to mention I was very accomodating of religion and culture and I don’t actually know how to cook any english food… Although can cook plenty of curries and I don’t mean from a jar

White girls can respect the Asian culture and are good enough for marriage (specifically aimed at Oleg16)
- dude
  
  wow, sounds to me you rushed into things alot. you have to stand your grownd, be square and TAKE IT SLOWLY… like fucking snail slow… because if they REALLY love you they will tough it out. jesus christ woman…. take it slow so you know their true self…
- Ganmichael
  
  Jeezy, sorry you’ve experienced such unpleasant, shady Asian peeps. Don’t worry, there’s an olde saying; you gotta get used to riding in beated up buggies before you get in the leather seat of a BMW. And when you’re riding a Bemmer, there goes the rolls royce. Stay sweet honey, plenty of good man out there for ya. There’s always good and bad mens in every race. Come to Canada babe!!
truth

if you’re not attracted to your own race it’s a your problem and that’s the result, why do you hate your father, yourself?
spartan

you have a thing for brown asians. try yellow asians for a change
- http://www.facebook.com/rgunasekera Ruwan Dilhan Gunasekera
  
  UNFORTUNATELY, Yellow Asians are OESTROGEN FILLED, FEMININE FEATURED, MOSTLY SMALL DICKS ! That’s why ‘ONLY’ non asian women
  who are Attracted to PRE-PUBERSENT BOYS go for Yellow asians ! i.e, Bisexual women ! Straight women don’t and even if they wanted, can’t go for you guys bec. you all are Women in mens bodies, with small dicks !

Natalie Tyre

I have always been attracted to Asain males. But I don’t live in an area with many Asians which is too bad.

Diamond-head97

where is it?

http://pulse.yahoo.com/_D5G4TBHW7GLM6FVDR5ZBFHSAUU Shaun Kik

Is it really that, White girls like to date the Asian Guys…?? I am asking this because its very hard to believe, as the Asian guys are not so good looking, plus their personality is too not good…

UK Dating Websites

Alex

^ jealous white dude
CRYS

once again my two sense…. but asian men have the sexiest lips… so full and plump but not too much so… and those sexy bedroom eyes…. soft skins and that dark hair…. It drives me insane… I don’t even find myself checking out many men that are not asain… and the kids… when they are mixed with white…. SOOOOO Pretty!!! so with that said… on to personality most asain men can hold a conversation longer than hey whhat’s up? so… there is like 50 points in the right direction lol…. besides I love a man who can make me smile laugh and blush in like 30 seconds flat….
- jessie
  
  oh YES SOOOO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!
jessie

white girl and don’t agree with you.

Ava M

Ohhhh! I just stumbledd across this, so sorry if my input is rather late lol…

I’m Australian, on the fair side of olive toned, brown eyes and brown hair. Naturally anyways. I usually have my hair done in a light brown/honey colour and enjoy wearing colour contacts. Any shade of green or hazel! Whether that made a difference or not, I’m not sure lol.

I use to go out with a viet guy. Extremely sweet, but clingy lolol. But it was cute, until it got to the point where he use to call at 5am – 7am some mornings, saying he missed me and couldnt wait to hear my voice… :s his creepiness was outweighed by his overall person though. Very attractive, super sweet, chilvary was not dead with this guy, and he seemed open to a lot of different cultures. He had a bit of an accent, and spoke a tiny bit of broken English, but I really enjoyed being with him.

The only reason we are not still together is because he had to return to Vietnam. He did ask me to go with him, but I had my own responsibilities here. Plus I couldn’t just up and leave uni in my 3rd year.. although to do so would of been romantic.

We did try long distance, but it just wasn’t working. So we went separate ways.

All in all, we had a wonderful relationship, had to overlook some things, compromise on others, engage heartily, and absorb your surroundings.

We were together for 2 years, 4 months of that was long distance. We still remain close friends, I’ve now known him for about 4 years now.. :p

g g

I can really relate to this article. I’m asian and I have fantasized about being with caucasian girls all my life because I’ve had a crush on one growing up, but I chickened out to ask her out, and I knew she liked me (because we kept staring at each other and smiling).

Now, I’m older in my late 20s, I’m still struggling to find a female I would like to be with, but being asian, there’s some stigma towards us that we are somehow not equal to white women.

I remember once, I chatted with someone who said she is white and we had a really great conversation on IM, and I made her laugh and everything, and finally on our 3rd day of chatting, she wanted to know if I have a picture of myself. I sent her my picture, and she looked at it and the only thing she said was “OMG” and then click, she turned off her IM. And I’m a pretty good looking asian guy (I sort of look like Daniel Henney), but looking back, I guess she would be the one in the red zone. This incident really bothered me though, I feel really embarrassed and I don’t even want to bother going after white women anymore, they’re not worth it.

Diamond-head97

never back down dude

g g

I can really relate to this article. I’m asian and I have fantasized about being with caucasian girls all my life because I’ve had a crush on one growing up, but I chickened out to ask her out, and I knew she liked me (because we kept staring at each other and smiling).

Now, I’m older in my late 20s, I’m still struggling to find a female I would like to be with, but being asian, there’s some stigma towards us that we are somehow not equal to white women.

I remember once, I chatted with someone who said she is white and we had a really great conversation on IM, and I made her laugh and everything, and finally on our 3rd day of chatting, she wanted to know if I have a picture of myself. I sent her my picture, and she looked at it and the only thing she said was “OMG” and then click, she turned off her IM. And I’m a pretty good looking asian guy (I sort of look like Daniel Henney), but looking back, I guess she would be the one in the red zone. This incident really bothered me though, I feel really embarrassed and I don’t even want to bother going after white women anymore, they’re not worth it.

g g

I can really relate to this article. I’m asian and I have fantasized about being with caucasian girls all my life because I’ve had a crush on one growing up, but I chickened out to ask her out, and I knew she liked me (because we kept staring at each other and smiling).

Now, I’m older in my late 20s, I’m still struggling to find a female I would like to be with, but being asian, there’s some stigma towards us that we are somehow not equal to white women.

I remember once, I chatted with someone who said she is white and we had a really great conversation on IM, and I made her laugh and everything, and finally on our 3rd day of chatting, she wanted to know if I have a picture of myself. I sent her my picture, and she looked at it and the only thing she said was “OMG” and then click, she turned off her IM. And I’m a pretty good looking asian guy (I sort of look like Daniel Henney), but looking back, I guess she would be the one in the red zone. This incident really bothered me though, I feel really embarrassed and I don’t even want to bother going after white women anymore, they’re not worth it.

Concerned parent

I am so sorry for the reaction from that girl you met. Please know that all girls are not that way. I have a 17yr old daughter who Loves Asian culture is learning to speak Korean and a small amount of Chinese. She is an Anime Geek but shes a very fine artist in her own right. She draws many diff styles. I beg to say she has learned more about Asia as a whole than many Asians know. She is also crazy about Asian boys. We live in the south in the U.S so not to many Asian kids here.
She loves family and loves and respects other people rare for someone her age. She is also white. She is a beautiful young lady. She has the spirit of Asia,
Reading the posts here make me very afraid for her. It appears from what I see
that racism is alive and well in the Asian community as well. Use white girls as sex and throw them away???? What about they can be human beings too !!! As for the comment they aren’t worth it. You haven’t met the right girl. I can understand your embarrassment but please don’t lump all white girls in a little box. Some like my daughter would be very much worth it. ohh and she happens to be pretty another plus :)
- Mattjohnson
  
  White women aren’t worth the time for a minority period! People should stick to their damn race! Most women (especially white women) are racist and there are even women who are the same race as the men (asian women) are bigoted to asian guys…they wouldn’t give a time of day for an asian dude. I’m not making this up, there are youtube videos from England and Australia that show white girls and asian girls that make fun of asian guys. I suggest you ladies out there make your damn youtube videos to counter these if you’re so desperate for the little yellow man.
  
  Also, white anglo British people hate the Japanese because of the brutal treatments of the British soldiers from WWII by the Japanese and Australian’s hate asians because the asian countries are so close to them and Aussies feel threatened. I read somewhere during post WWII, many kids in England (many of them were not even orphans) were abducted to Australia so the whites can be dominant in Australia then asians. And supposedly…even the queen of England may have been involved in the conspiracey.
- Matt_johnson
  
  Also, for the safety of your 17yr old, I urge you to force your kid to embrace white anglo european culture, I can’t believe you let your kid with asian stuff especially in the south (are you nuts??). You need to think about your kid, let her be normal instead of letting your daughter into an asian crazy fetish loser.

http://pulse.yahoo.com/_PCYWI5VO6V7UNRK62ROBPO226Y Blue Sonson

I can really relate to this article. I’m asian and I have fantasized about being with caucasian girls all my life because I’ve had a crush on one growing up, but I chickened out to ask her out, and I knew she liked me (because we kept staring at each other and smiling).

Now, I’m older in my late 20s, I’m still struggling to find a female I would like to be with, but being asian, there’s some stigma towards us that we are somehow not equal to white women.
I remember once, I chatted with someone who said she is white and we had a really great conversation on IM, and I made her laugh and everything, and finally on our 3rd day of chatting, she wanted to know if I have a picture of myself. I sent her my picture, and she looked at it and the only thing she said was “OMG” and then click, she turned off her IM. And I’m a pretty good looking asian guy (I sort of look like Daniel Henney), but looking back, I guess she would be the one in the red zone. This incident really bothered me though, I feel really embarrassed and I don’t even want to bother going after white women anymore, they’re not worth it.

Squishyrainbowstars

That is really sad =( Don’t give up!
I am caucasian with spanish and russian blood. I have dated white guys but never thought I would ever be with an Asian guy. He magically found me on the internet and we chatted for several months and we would chat on the phone. He lives in Japan and is only 5ft 3, I am 5ft 2 though, so we are both tiny hahaha! But we finally met and we were so happy and excited. I moved to Japan to be with him and now we married and have a baby boy =) I don’t understand why some white girls do not seem interested in Asian guys. I know a white girl who dated an asian guy for three months and treated him really badly. When they split up she boasted about having sex with him to her friends etc. Made me so angry. She obviously saw him as a novelty item because he was asian.
I think it depends on the history and the environment between the western country and the asian country. Also how you were brought up by your parents and other people will also make you who you are. Don’t worry you will find someone who will be interested in you, looks should not matter in the long run, it’s the personality that matters most!
- Ganmichael
  
  Dude, is all about the numbers bro. Just show up. Don’t be afraid of rejection. Live a feeling. Keep fishing buddy. And blessing to ya JASPRU, they must be pretty!!:)
CRYS

just a thought but she is shallow… and most of the time white women who know anything about an asian mom finds asian men intimidating… I’m determined to marry mine and his mom scares the crap out of me…. I am the white devil and not good enough… sooo…. maybe we don’t think we are going to add up?!?!
- Squishyrainbowstars
  
  Yeah she is very shallow, she just wanted to look “cool” by dating an asian guy.
  Have you been called the “white devil” by his mum? That’s sad =(
  My husband’s mum and dad both really like me and his mum sees me as a daughter =)
  We get along really well!
  I think there are many different families that have different views with white people.
  I am sorry that his mum doesn’t like you =(
  - Ganmichael
    
    Give mama sometime to grow to like you. Believe me, next thing you know; she be calling you and inviting you for supper and love you too pieces:) ppl don’t and can’t change overnight!!
- Ganmichael
  
  Mama just needs a big sweet hub to change her views and cast away those walls. Give her a kiss and hug next time and it will break the barrier, I promised:)
  - Ganmichael
    
    I meant HUG!! LOL

Pamplemouse4all

I am a white girl who has been attracted to asians (and other colours) all her life… I grew up in such a multi-cultural neighborhood I assumed all parents hated the white devil that stole their son away. In Canada, many asian guys only want asian girls… in asia, where I live now, there are a few asian men who like white girls but occasionally have (not being canadian) very different views on life than the foriegners do. Definately have successfully dated people from the hometown more successfully than people from abroad, regardless of race.

Ganmichael

Yaaay, I found my Canada co-sign. hahaha lol Maple Leafs Jays Senators Flames Candiens Raptors Go Canada Go Canada STRONG AND FREE BABY!!!

I SECOND THAT PAMPLEMOUSE4ALL!! LMAO

Crys

My Dad was Chinese and my mom was white they were married 32 years until my dad past away… so the combination can be amazing…

http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson

I don’t really see how this combination can last for that many years, your mom must’ve felt sorry for him, usually asian man/white woman couples get in divorce the most due to racism and stereotypes.
- CRYS
  
  my mother did not feel sorry for him… he loved him very much… i was adopted I myself M WHITE MY FIANCE IS CHINESE and veit…. and it is a great combo as well….
  - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
    
    You can be honest, does your fiance have a small peen??
- Plawski_d
  
  Mathew just shut up, will ya! Geez
- spock
  
  That is because YOU suffer from prejudgements and assumptions that those combos always suffer from racism and stereotypes…. sounds to me like you have a problem with stereotyping this combo XD YOU JUST GOT PWND BY SPOCK LOGIC… suck it!
Guest

you must be hot, what an amazing mix! WOW!

The Third Age

It sucks to be an Asian guy in America!In fact I would go one step further and say that white people are by fate the mortal enemies of Asian males. Think about this; In America, the white male steals all the Asian females in the dating scene, while on the other hand the white female practically spits upon the Asian male! Asian males are seen at best as “pets” to white females. Sexless friends and errand boys. The only time they are soo nice to Asian males is when they have an agenda such as a waitress!Furthermore, as if that wasn’t enough, due to massive cultural brainwashing by the racist media in America, high numbers of Asian males are turning gay for the white male because apparently that is the only thing Asian guys appear to be good for here in America. Yeah that’s right, get on your knees and then bend over for the white guys. Just look at all the porn movies, almost all are Asian women with white guys and almost zero Asian males unless of course it is gay porn!

Antirad

White women love Black men. It’s about sex and dick.
I hate the fact too, but facts are facts..

Antirad

White women love Black men. It’s about sex and dick.
I hate the fact too, but facts are facts..

Antirad

White women love Black men. It’s about sex and dick.
I hate the fact too, but facts are facts..

Johnsmith

White women are players. They never settle for a nerdy asian guys. They’re the type that would prefer someone who walks on the edge, like a black guy with tattoos from head to toe.

CRYS

um… just my thing but I love my nerdy asain man lol… he is perfect and makes me laugh and always has the best responses… I refuse to date a black guy honestly… been burned once never again! I’ll stick with where respect is a common courtesy!
jessie

I’m a white girl, so I know better then you, a guy, where I’m after, thankyouverymuch.

Johnsmith

I used to date a white girl. We were pretty much married without the marriage license. We live together and all. Even had a few kids. She was really cool, pretty and sexy. I like everything about her except for the fact that she was so content with eating beans and living off welfare for the rest of her life or until something better fell from the sky. As much as I cared for her could not justify the misery I was going thru sitting around living the life she seemed so content with. We eventually split.

http://www.facebook.com/AntDX316 Anthony Abelardo

after reading many of the comments on here and personal experience from what I see.. I feel the white and asian connection is based in an already established background.. I feel the stuff I see and read about are of professional nature.. everyone here seems to be posting in well grammar.. unlike how I am typing now.. if u just analyze how it is from black to black.. white to white.. spanish to spanish and combine them it usually isn’t as professional in nature as it is here.. I feel the “professional” and “successful” nature is key to a successful white/asian dating relationship.. people go seperate ways but I feel the poverty aspect does not exist.. at all.. I think it’s the openism that makes it work.. personally I find white country girls physically attractive so it really isn’t all about the “success” but it turns out to be common

CRYS

Funny that you should say that,… I honestly believe my other half who is an asain male expects more out of me than say if I dated a white guy. (my own race). He has goals and dreams for both of us, so do I however I notice he pushes me harder to acheive them more quickly than anyone else in the past has. I am a tried and true country girl, I love riding, and playing with farm animals… but at the same time he has forced this lady-like behavior out of me that i’ve never worried much with before. I think without his pushing I would not be as far as I am now though. honestly… Just my thoughts…. again not always right but it works for me… !!! till next time!
- http://www.facebook.com/AntDX316 Anthony Abelardo
  
  nice

Jonvnguyen

hi, i’m an asian male and just got out of a bad relationship with an asian woman. so i’m so open to meet a white female. so if you’re a white female that wants to get to know me or just to be friend with, just hit me up :)

TOPkey

Ha…I never thought I’d see statistics applied in something like this…interesting. I’m in the green zone :D Except I actually find it really hard to get close with Asian guys because they’re always in little cliques with other Asians…and only Asians. Kind of unfortunate considering I’m really into the Asian culture-I find it more similar to my Eastern European background than American culture. So Asian guys-start approaching white girls more! I’m pretty sure that green zone is a bit bigger than the graph makes it out to be (at least from my experience).

Amnesty

I really like this discussion. I’m in my 40′s and have been very interested in dating Asian men, and have even been studying Japanese for about 2 years. I love Japanese history, culture, pop culture and men! But there doesn’t really seem to be any way to meet them. I agree with another poster that the Asian men I see (I live near Los Angeles) seem to be a.) too young for me and b.) always in groups. Even match.com doesn’t seem to be able to find a “match” for me within 25 miles! Geez!

I have narrowed this down to these theories, which may be wrong – please tell me!

a. Asian men in their 40′s who are divorced don’t seek white women.
b. Asian men don’t go on internet dating sites
c. Asian men are super shy and so am I, so how to meet?

I am going to start trying “meet up groups” and see if I can meet anyone. But how do you know if they like you if you are both shy? I don’t think a Japanese or Japanese/American would like a woman to be strong and funny and too forward so I have no idea how to approach one… I am not any of these things really (and I am relatively attractive – not to toot my horn) but just flirting with an Asian or Japanese man would make me feel like I was being all three of those things at once, given the difference in culture.

I have a feeling that this board is for younger men and women, but maybe not. Plus, I am not against dating someone younger than I am. Anyway, I’m not trying to date anyone on this blog, I just wanted to know if anyone has any suggestions.

Odre

I want to say that this is soooo intriguing.
I am a white girl that just started her first year of university in Canada, and in the one month I’ve been year I really hit off with my two asian guy neighbours. (As in we’re together all the time– I’m with them more than with girls)
I had gone to a private international school before so I only knew “fob” asians that went to the boarding school there. These two new asian friends of mine were first gen but don,t have an accent and I find that they seem to be the perfect mix of asian and canadian.
I’ve never been attracted to an asian before – despite living in thailand for 9 months and india for 3 – but now I’m really hitting it off with one of these two guys and if I’m reading the signs right we’re heading for the right direction.
So I wanted to say that this article is really right. I’ve always been open to the idea, but never have been attracted to an asian before now. But then again– I’m the type of girl that’s picky and it takes a lot for me to like a guy.
So there you go.
Now I’m trying to do my research because I’m worried he won’t go for me. (I’m outgoing, loud, happy and take up a lot of space) I do know his last girlfriend was white though, so my hopes are up and my chances are pretty good.
I guess the reason for this rant is that I really agree with this article, but I find it sad that we would be labled as “not marryable” material: I never date a guy “to see where it goes”, I date a guy when I have a long-term relationship in mind.

Alex

… sincerely, Good luck with that

i didnt think id see myself writing on a post like this – but here goes my opinion/view.
Im an asian guy living in australia (born and raised) and hey… i dont mind going for white or asian girls.

in the past i even had crushes on some of my white (girl) friends. I wanted to ask them out but i guess i was too chicken because of social pressures… back then i was at high school.
I may have lost interest as some times they may be too outgoing/flirty with other guys.

Now im in my 4th year of uni and those barriers and pressures are no more. I have many asian guy friends who go out and are even in long term relationships with white girls… 1 of them are getting married this year – both of them are only 21yo!!
- Alex
  
  i agree there may be a tendency for some asian guys to go out with white girls – try em out – or only as some sort of “not marryable” type and then marry some asian girl… but that generalisation is inaccurate… – Don’t most guys have that thinking of wanting to go out with lotsa girls and everything… the same can be said for white guys too i believe… trying out asian girls and dumping them… very common and controversial.
  
  i guess for white girls out there… it really comes down to you seeing if the asian guy is genuine, easy going, accepting and all that nice stuff. but if their not – then just leave em or dont bother…
  
  and then when you’re in a relationship – things may change for better or worse – perhaps the both of you may take things on deeper and further becoming more stable and serious…
  
  … i myself come from a family where I have 2 uncles who married white woman. Both of them have solid families and children… over 20-30years…
- Alex
  
  i agree there may be a tendency for some asian guys to go out with white girls – try em out – or only as some sort of “not marryable” type and then marry some asian girl… but that generalisation is inaccurate… – Don’t most guys have that thinking of wanting to go out with lotsa girls and everything… the same can be said for white guys too i believe… trying out asian girls and dumping them… very common and controversial.
  
  i guess for white girls out there… it really comes down to you seeing if the asian guy is genuine, easy going, accepting and all that nice stuff. but if their not – then just leave em or dont bother…
  
  and then when you’re in a relationship – things may change for better or worse – perhaps the both of you may take things on deeper and further becoming more stable and serious…
  
  … i myself come from a family where I have 2 uncles who married white woman. Both of them have solid families and children… over 20-30years…
Alex

… sincerely, Good luck with that

i didnt think id see myself writing on a post like this – but here goes my opinion/view.
Im an asian guy living in australia (born and raised) and hey… i dont mind going for white or asian girls.

in the past i even had crushes on some of my white (girl) friends. I wanted to ask them out but i guess i was too chicken because of social pressures… back then i was at high school.
I may have lost interest as some times they may be too outgoing/flirty with other guys.

Now im in my 4th year of uni and those barriers and pressures are no more. I have many asian guy friends who go out and are even in long term relationships with white girls… 1 of them are getting married this year – both of them are only 21yo!!

BananaBoat

This topic been posted over a year, but i still wanna share mine anyway.
I’m an Asian guy, who had a Caucasian gf before. She was a mixed Finnish-British. Though i already broken up with her to a Korean (and then Thai now) but i can tell u guys it was a real wonderful time i ever had. Sorry to say this but she is best for physical bed time comparing with others. Dont get me wrong. I did really love her, and so did she. It was just my fault back then from my childish issue.

She was somewhere closed to the green zone, i guess. I can tell all the Asian guys that this article is damn right. Most girls are open to relationship with Asian guy. But if you never found one, you need to check back yourself for what goes wrong. Most Asian guys are not comfortable being in Caucasian group, but you need to overcome this first!!! How could you get a white chic when you not comfortable being in her environment? Be confidence!! You need to respect yourself then others will respect you and dont let Caucasian guys steal your scene.

We, Asian, already have our style. Make use of it. Being cool while acting humble always wins over those dumb-shit showing-off boaster. Trust me…
This article really makes me missing my old time.. (T-T)

Alex

I never thought i’d be posting – but heres some friendly advice (in note form)

from an asian guy to you, the white girl ; ) …

… trying to get/influence/flirt/form a relationship with a decent asian bloke.
- Im an Asian guy born and raised from Australia currently studying at universityTake it with a pinch of salt as it’s only my view/beliefs/opinions:Obviously,- of course, everyone is different- some guys may prefer some things in a girl that others don’tFirstly,- perhaps understand why some/most asian guys like asian girls- similar culture, upbringing, familiarity, 100% blood tendency, language, family pressure etc- asian girls – physique, characteristics, appearance etc. (i’m not going into specifics)- Know and acknowledge the (false inaccurate?) generalisations and common beliefs and attitudes of why asian guys don’t like white girlsREMEMBER THAT THESE ARE GENERALISATIONS, CULTURE BARRIERS -> break them?- be friends with him- form strong bonds- show indicators of interest: talk back, talk funny, talk something – it doesnt have to make sense since you just act cute anyway… touch (kinetic rapport)… touch hand/arm/shoulder/leg… just a simple touch – passing gesture – think about the way you stand and your posture etc…The value of having asian friends,- you can learn a lot from asian girls – especially if you have asian friends- it certainly helps if you have lots of asian friends- if not then maybe find one? lol… since to me it shows that “oh you have other asian friends too”- of course it helps if you know the respective “asian culture” of the guy you like- but if you are already friends with him maybe he can tell you about it or you can ask him – this shows that your interested in where he comes from - you can pick up some simple words from his language to impress him lol – be careful don’t insult him.Personality,- Here I must only tell you about what I like in a girl be it asian or white… since,- NB: it goes back to the fact that everyone is different- NB: other asian guys may like different traits- For a white girl to “plant the seed into an asian guys mind to like them and win their heart”:- Key personality traits:- dont be too forth coming, active or outgoing – being reserved sometimes helps- subtlety is the key - dont be afraid to make the first move – since some asian guys tend to only go for asian girls doesn’t mean their not open to white girls – I used to only go for asian girls but of course there has been the occasional white girl crush etc- be observent- all it takes is a simple comment or remark example: a white girl wants saw something i was doing and helped me with it saying that i was doing it all wrong (at uni). She laughed and suggested i do it this way. moral: kind acts can win hearts- try not to talk about other guys -> to me I lose heart lol.- Its ok to talk about other guys… sometimes – but its good to clarify the situation (“hes just a friend”)- for the girl who can’t wait for the confession- then make the confession- dont be afraid – try it- remember subtlety is key- perhaps condition him psychologically about it -> ask him what he thinks about asian girl and white guy or white girl and asian guy relationships…- this gives you an idea of his attitudes- put it in a way which makes you feel “ok” if you are rejected:examples: ” i was wondering whether if you wanted to go out with me? “- im sure u can come up with something betteri hope this helps – hope it makes sense – hope i didnt offend anyoneok… its getting late… gotta study for my exam. if u want more advice let me know. below.

Alexvfoo

wtf… i had layed out my post nicely for the eyes… its all shit now sigh T_T – well the post above is for white girls
Nikki, the loser whit girl. :P

Haha, thanks lol :P I’m not gonna lie, this was pretty amusing. But also kinda helpful. Yeah, I know I’m pretty late on this article, but whatever. Thanks ^.^

Amnesty

Thanks for saying all that BananaBoat. I really think that Asian guys are becoming very cool in the eye of white women. I have been noticing that for years amongst my friends. I live in LA where there is a big mix of cultures, so maybe it’s a little more accessible here. But Please guys, flirt with us! Ask us out! We are as shy as you are, but still like men who try.

Good luck, Ganbatte!

Noname

I’m an Asian male and dated white girls before, Canadian, European and latinas, of course Asians as well. Don’t have a thing for black women though.

Don’t think the diagram is accurate, at least NOT in North America. Would say that red zone probably as big as 1/2, while the green zone probably 1/50, and you can figure out the grey zone.

Another thing is the quality of girls. True that once in a while you see white girl with Asian guys, but In U.S or Canada,how often do you see a hot white girl with Asian guys? Be honest, the change is really slim.

Honestly it’s not worth that much hassle to pursue white girls in U.S or Canada. When I travelled and lived outside North America, it’s just much much easier to get pretty girls. Not to mention that the big chunk of overweighted fatties in U.S and feminism attitude, huge turnoff.

European girls are much better than American couterparts, and the best bet for Asian guys to get a pretty, hot non-Asian girl is South America : Brasil or Colombia. Much better attitude, and better shape, and beautiful.

just my $0.02.

guest

Dont DARE consider Canada to be the same thing as U.S. that is as bad as comparing Mongolia to Japan, BIG no no. some similarities but the differences run pretty deep. Canada has just as many fatties as Europe does, except Canadians shave their legs and armpits and have a higher percentage at being healthier. Sounds to me that you just went to the states and wanted to sound like you been to alot of places so you decided to add in Canada. Anyway if a white girl knows you have been around THAT much, if she is of high calibur she would be highly intimidated by it if not turned off.
- Loveloverpao
  
  He’s just sharing his opinion, it’s ok to travel to find love, that’s what I am going to do, I love Japanese culture and Japanese guys are more attractive than Caucasian to me, hence my dream is to live in Japan one day, i am learning Japanese to get closer to my future boyfriend’s family, I know its important and I feel it’s a way to show respect and love. I am a very desired girl, (this week I said no to 4 guys which I thought they were friends but they were into me) well anyway, me being white or Latina or Canadian wont matter if I’m into the culture and love and respect it, but, it’s only that asians have only asked me out like: what? 3 times?? But… I feel they are his family won’t accept me until I am familiar with their culture, I am very strong with that,
  - Rongee2
    
    sorry to heat that your another Bisexual white girl ! read above comments, you’ll see ! The most bisexual women of all races are white, that’s why they are attracted to the least masculine featured men with small penises – Asian males !
- ron
  
  even though your reply seems good, you seem to still have the hots for Asian males. I have noticed that of all the races in the world, white women are the most Bisexually because they are attracted to the least masculine, smallest penised men in the world who happen to be Asian ! How can you assume he’s been around that much with the smallest penis and imasculine features ? don’t you know it’s a feather in the cap for an Asian man to date a white girl !
Amnesty

Oh Bozo, UGH!! Men like you can just go play with your own penises. Why do you keep talking about women as fatties and feminists? There are all sorts of cultural stereotypes to throw around out there. Why don’t you just grow a set of balls and stop demeaning women. How does demeaning women make you feel stronger? Napoleon Complex much? I bet.

I happen to be gorgeous, thin and well off. I have two higher degrees. And any man would be happy to know me. Nobody could ever think of me as fat and my brand of “feminism” isn’t really a woman’s movement at all, just reality. Like this: I am a woman. I work, pay rent, have fun, have sex, work a little more and have strong opinions on things that are worth having strong opinions about. I’m fun, clever and do NOT suffer fools gladly. Like you.

Every race, sex, ethnicity and culture has sterotypes – but every race, sex, culture and ethnicity has absolutely wonderful, openminded people who will take your breath away.

Good luck Bozo. I doubt with a tiny mind like yours you will ever be able to find someone like that.
- Insideninja
  
  Has anyone noticed the girls on dating sites (e.g. Match.com) when they are requesting what their ideal date should be like when they list the ethnicity, that many white girls leave out Asian in their desires – but highlight everything else. It could be ignorance or that whole perception that all Asians are a like.
  
  I wish more of them were more open minded and willing to learn about us inside and out, not just the cover and come to some preconceived judgement.
  
  Also the Asian women also list mainly Caucasian (which ironically has Asian in the name itself haha). Just my observations – but if you are curious check it out yourself, make a fake profile if you can’t be bothered putting up a real one or feel the need to use any site.
  
  I’ll keep persistent though – good luck guys and gals.

Tjblackmorse

Nice topic Bonsai!
I would like to share a different view of my country and I hope you Americans/Canadians/Australians/etc look the mix ou races as something really normal.
I’m half japanese and italian who born in Brazil. In my country it’s extremelly normal to people mix with other races. In fact, the history of my country it’s tottaly related to de mixures of different races.
Here people don’t look strange to you if you are dating a black girl, blonde, or any other race because we don`t look other races as different than ours since we all are humans and live in the same place and share universal values that are indiferent in any culture.
Many foreigners friends when came to Brazil say that here we have the most beautifull and happy people in the world. I say to then, this is because we are tottaly mixed with different races and cultures!
So if any asian guy or white girl are in doubt of dating or marrying someone different of you I strongly suggest to come to my country and take a look and see that race mixures is extremelly positive!
For the guys who are looking for white girls, come here to Brazil and you will see that it’s very easy to approach any girl, and also it’s not surprise the girls here will take an approach on you easily.

Sorry about my english…

Ganmichael

And ya”ll brought some of that Brazilian chicken here in Toronto, we love it. I agreed with you and don’t need to come too Brazil to believe it, is here in our City. T.O is at it’s best!! Toronto Maple Leaf My neighbours are Brazilian!! hahaha

THATguy

it really doesnt matter what race you are, but either you have it or you dont. im a filipino living on the stateline of texas/arkansas and probably the only normal asian guy in town. all the other asian people that live in my city are pretty much straight out of the boat, so you can probably imagine the shit i get from my friends for all that. ive only dated white girls. ive had 2 filipino girlfriends but they both just reminded me of my sister so i just broke it off. all my friends are white. all the people at school are white or black or mexican. when i go to a party or a show im always the token asian guy though my friends always say “youre pretty much a white guy”. meeting girls you can always tell how its gonna go. theres the girls who have a thing for asians, the stereotypical southern girls whose parents wouldnt like them dating anyone who isnt white, and then the girls who are curious.

when douchebags see that you are getting attention they will talk shit, racist shit. one time at a party a whole group of guys would only refer to me as “asian guy”. whether youre going to be a pussy or not is up to you. but you can either laugh it off and show them it doesnt bother you, or you can just talk shit right back if you are good at that type of thing. or you can just beat them up. but you cant just sit there and take it all night or theyll never stop.

but since im pretty much the only normal asian guy in town girls get curious. and what you do with them WILL effect their views on all asian guys.

i dated one girl with a country family, even though she was more of an indie music listening type of girl. her parents werent 100 percent comfortable with me not being white but they were just too polite to say it. even though they would say nigger all the time so i kindve guessed they would talk shit about me to her. and they did but she didnt care.

it was going great…until i left her for my ex girlfriend.

she then proceeded to tell everyone shes never dating anyone thats not white again. yes, that was an asshole move, but thinking race has something to do with it?

oh and if you party a lot sluts will always be down for an asian guy because they are wanting to try something new.

just my unorganized thoughts.

Ganmichael

Ya keep it real down south, I like that.

Mikey from Toronto, Canada.

http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson

Just understand folks, there are more single asian men in the U.S. then there are any other race, and I’m just pointing out the ratio and not the total statistics of men (most likely there are more single white men because there are more of them). What I find kind of odd is that if race isn’t the problem like Alleluia and Amnesty pointed out, how come there are far more asian women with white men all over the world?? Women generally choose the mate while the men try to mate with any women, so obviously there’s some bias, racism, discrimination towards asian men especially in the U.S.!!

Ganmichael

Hey Matty, sounds like you need a lot of love and healing in your life bro, here’s a big hug all the way from Toronto, Canada from an Asian guy name Mikey. And some of my Redneck buddies would say the same too you. Are you mad cause you can’t get an Asian girl? like some some of your friend have. Be a man and speak what’s in your heart instead of being around the bush. So what if there’s more single Asian men in US than anywhere else! what is your point here?? stop being around the bush dude. If you don’t like Chins, just say you don’t like Chins. You think you’re better than don’t you?

There’s an old saying; ppl that put others to build them selve up is a low form of anger.
Matty, you’re obviously angry and hostile towards Asian in particular based on your words here bud. Why don’t you share with all of us what that is!!
- Matt
  
  First of all I’m not your bro, I personally do not appreciate all this bullying, I’m being realistic. Most white women or women in general in western societies automatically assume asian guys are not manly enough because western society is ruled by white men who are seen as being manly and make the other minority men look bad. Also, white men tend to make their white women look bad if they’re with a non white male. I foresee a race war in the near future all because of women.

http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson

Amnesty and Alleluia, in the U.S. asian men are the most single out of all other races and I’m just pointing out the ratio and not the statistics (most likely white men are single the most because there are more of them). If you say race isn’t the problem, how come there are far more asian women with white men (and not just here in the U.S. but all over the world)??.
Generally, women are the ones that choose the mate while the men try to mate with any female, so obviously there’s bias, racism, discrimination, negative stereotypes for asian men especially in the U.S. I’m just being honest, why would you be hurt by the truth?!

Anonymous

I’m a white chick and I find Asian men really attractive. I have a major crush on an Asian dude who catches my bus, but I’m not sure if he likes me…

nik

get to know him….asian guys are really shy
- Anonymous
  
  Hmmmm…
Ganmichael

You don’t know until you try:) waive your hand and say hi too him with a smile. If you see any facial movement or shiness on his face and body language, this means he wants you all over him or at least as much as you want him. hahaha

Angela

I’m a Caucasian girl, and I love Asian men. :) Keep trying, we’re out there

Damin

where are you now? Im an asian from Sri lanka currently in UK
Guest

damin225@yahoo.co.uk
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damin225@yahoo.co.uk

where are you now? Im an asian from Sri lanka currently in UK
I’mDesperate

Hey Angela, what’s your email??
ron

Sorry to hear that you love Asian men as in Japanese, Chinese, Korean etc. because what this tells is that you areBisexual ! Here’s why. You are attracted to the least masculine featured race of all men, and with the smallest penises ! When a white woman is in bed with an Asian male, from far, they both look like women ! I know there are more Bisexual white women like you who are looking for Asain Feminine boys ! Sad to say ! If you were a Real straight white girl, you would naturally be attracted to real men, like Black, white or East Indian, who have good masculine features and bigger penises than your Asian pretty boys !
Syphonfilter777

Keep the balls rolling then!!!
http://www.facebook.com/fauboca John Lauritzen

you have facebook?
- Matt
  
  Dude, white women aren’t worth it, lot of them are grossly overweight and the ones that do like asian men are self hating, insecure white women that hate their dad.
jay

R u into brown(South Asian) guys at all?I am fair skinned, 5’10″ 170lbs

Leia

I’m 17 (18 this month) English/Spanish female, and I absolutely adore asian men. On the contrary to what Matthew Johnson had to say, I am by no means fat, ugly or like Anime. I’m rather petite, but, that has nothing to do with this. I had a huge crush on Jackie Chan as a child and still prefer Asian men over White or Black to this day. I don’t know what it is, there’s just something about them. Dark hair/dark eyes, polite, sweet..etc they’re really quite beautiful. My first boyfriend was a Japanese exchange student, but sadly we had to break it off when he went back home to Japan, though we’re both still good friends and hopefully (one day) will see eachother again. I honestly think Asian men are gorgeous and have the potential to date any woman from any race, the only problem is Asian guy’s tend to lack confidence; nothing else. It took me a good four month to break through my ex boyfriends shell and I was quite surprised when he told me (once I finally nabbed him) that he had always had a crush on me! Seriously, I thought he had no interest in me whatsoever due to his first signals (aka, short answers when I asked him something, always facing away from me..etc but I later learnt that he was simply shy) So yes, Caucasian girls do like Asian guys, and I’m certainly not the only one! I recently got a friend into J-rock/K-pop and we enjoy fangirling over Yuya Matsushita together (who we’re hopefully going to see live soon!) Asian men ar gorgeous and a lot of women love youse!

Ganmichael

Thanks mama sita!! :) hahaha I love you too and ain’t ahy at all and lack nothing.
Mikey from Toronto, ON Canada is not burrito, is baleaddoooo hahaha

Krissy

I am also a Caucasian girl who is dating a Japanese man. I was not looking to date an Asian man though, We were set up through a mutual friend. I have only dated white men before, but I ended up falling in love with this one.

overdrive

Be honest does he have a small peepee?
I Like Pie <3

That’s so sweet. XD
ron

White girls who date Asian guys are bisexual because, if you look, out of all the races of men, Asian men look the most feminine, have the smallest penises etc. Any straight White girl will go for a Black guy with big penises in general, or thier own kind of white men who are also masculine, or indian men who have the same charateristics ! So, if you think you Asian guys are so hot with White women, think again………the only white women you get see you as the least Masculine because they are looking for feminine Boys !
Littdna317

I always liked to analogize WF/AM dating w/ this Dr. Seuss story “Green Eggs & Ham”. A white girl trying her first date w/ an Asian guy is like this grumpy character from the story who would not eat green eggs & ham. When he tried them at the end, it became his favorite dish. What I see w/ WF/AM dating is whenever a white girl dates an Asian man, she ends up falling in the deepest love that she has ever fallen in.

King

lol wow, im 16 and reading these comments make me feel good about being asian lol. Nice topic, really interesting. My input is that not alotta asian guys may be attractive but just like white guys, we have our own style. Asians have not so good looking people just like how whites have not so good looking people but we also do have our good looking people and so do the whites. I really fair game at this point. Until we bring in the numbers. Whites may have more good looking people, but Asians have some goddamn sexy people(though few in numbers). quantity vs quality, that’s my guess for why theres more asian women who go out with white men. Cause there’s just more good looking white men to go around for the big population of asian women. Now for Asians, we’re small in numbers for good lookin guys but our good lookin guys are really good lookin guys lol we also have the people in the middle who are decent~ the decents get balanced out with the white decents but theres alotta asian guys and not so much white girls to make it look like both colors are fair in the dating world. I’m from Los Angeles. Pretty asian girls in Bay area,SF,Canada, and most of east coast. We have our western beauties here too but more prominent in the east coast.

logan

I’m a white girl and i love Asians! Hell I’ve slept with a few of them! So ya… they exist

Ganmichael

Come to Toronto, Ontario, Canada. There are many Hot ones here!! hahaha hurry before it expires!! lol

Babana

white girls are racist assholes

jessie

I’ve already found my hot Asian guy, I’m so in love, OMG!!!!!!

Ganmichael

Can I get a piece? hahaha am kidding lol
Sky Grey

Hi if you have a friend who thinks like you :-) could u pls tell her to write to sky.grey@live.com, thank u so very much :-)

henry

hi ppl!!! im glad that i’ve found this website here. i’m asian, live in chicago.. i’ve only dated asians, but i found myself like white or caucasian girl more( i have friends). i wish i ll find my special one soon and make her the real chinese food :)

Ganmichael

Bro, remember this: just always show up. If she likes you, she will lead u. Is all about the numbers bro. keep putting your resume out there. Don’t be afraid of rejection. Live a feeling. You gotta ride a bunch of beated up buggies before you get used too the leather seat of a BMW. And when you’re in a BMW, you turn around; there is the rollls royce!!

Tatihanna

Im a white girl lol ive only every liked asian guys i never knew why and i really dont care! :) i once dated a white guy but he wwas very rude to me and pushed me around said i was too passive like a a cow. i never got that from an asian man somehow with my personality always worked with them and they loved how i was soo interested in their culture and was wanting to learn more of it :) which also made the parents like me to :)

Futuremuzik

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Hot Dog

white men really hate to see white girls dating Asian men, although you can see white men dating Asian women everywhere.

Just come to Australia you can see many angry Aussie men around who
date Asian hookers but at the same time very angry to Asian men dating
white Aussie girls

Hot Dog

white men really hate to see white girls dating Asian men, although you can see white men dating Asian women everywhere.

Just come to Australia you can see many angry Aussie men around who
date Asian hookers but at the same time very angry to Asian men dating
white Aussie girls

Hot dog

This is to clarify the BIG mistake that ppl have:

- The proportion of AM/WF is less- NOT because white males are more
attractive or size factor as invented by many western men, its because
“Asian men are less interest in white women in general”. Normal (East)Asian girls
are not interest in white Caucasian men too,

- just go check it out, 99% of those Asian women who date
western guys out there are lower than avg type or having mental
problems herself(unless she is a Hooker who rip-off Western men for living
& aim to get certain material benefits in return).

- If an Asian girl go out with a white man, that means she can be fcuk
by ANY Asian guys on the street too. These w men are considered as
having Asian men’s junks but they don’t want to admit, however, those w girls
who date Asian guys are usually the hot ones.

On Sun, Dec 18, 2011 at 2:42 PM, Tom LSK wrote:As
for the marriage survey which made up by some American/English white
men(to feel good):Generally Asian men are not interest in western girls,
thats y the AM/WF vs AW/WM aren’t balanced. In reality white
men usually take Asian men’s junks but they don’t know. Those not
considered pretty or attractive-lower than avg Asian women who couldn’t
get a normal partner, can get the white men to marry her instead. But
Asian men only date hot white girls & these couples are growing more
nowadays.
———————
just go check it out, 99% of those Asian women who date
western guys out there are lower than avg type or having mental
problems(unless she is a Hooker who rip-off Western men for living
& some material benefits in return).

If an Asian girl go out with a white guy, that means she can be fcuk
by ANY Asian guys around, so Asians men don’t give a shit just those
white dickheads would ‘think’ Asian men are jealous LAMO

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5vBSQ0JEYo

I Like Pie <3

I’m a white girl and I have a major crush on an Asian guy who catches my bus. We smile at eachother when I get on/off, but I don’t know if he likes me or not. I’m not sure how long he’s been in Australia for, because he has a really strong accent when he speaks. I think it’s really hot. =D I’m not sure if he’s confident enough to have a conversation with me, and I’m too shy to start one. (^\^) ~ <3

I Like Pie <3

I’m a white girl and I have a major crush on an Asian guy who catches my bus. We smile at eachother when I get on/off, but I don’t know if he likes me or not. I’m not sure how long he’s been in Australia for, because he has a really strong accent when he speaks. I think it’s really hot. =D I’m not sure if he’s confident enough to have a conversation with me and I’m too shy to start one. I’d really like to talk to him though. (^\^) ~ <3

apple pie

do you know what’s his name? if you dont know, you can ask him and there you go the conversation
- I Like Pie <3
  
  Yeah, his name is Tom. (^_^) My brother asked for me though. (-.-|||)
  - Diamond-head97
    
    LOL XD
    - I Like Pie <3
      
      Haha (^^’) Yeah… I wish I could talk to him. :)
    - diamondhead
      
      how long have u been crushing him? if u dont be quick, others will…you know..XD lol. so best of luck :D
    - I Like Pie <3
      
      Thanks, I’ve liked him for about 7 months or so… Wow, time goes so fast. It’s holidays now, though, so the next time I’ll probably see him is January next year… :( Unless I see him at the shopping centre. (We live in the same suburb, yay!) ^^
    - ihateforeigners
      
      Do you know if he has a small peepee??
    - Diamond-head97
      
      Do you see him often?
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      I’ve seen him at/walking to the shops a few times and basically everyday on the bus, (But the bus has temporarily stopped for holidays).
    - Diamond-head97
      
      throw a party and invite him. lol seen too much movies xD
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      Lol, you’re funny, haha! XD
    - Diamond-head97
      
      as far as i knw,boys my typeare really shy and afraid to approach anyone
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      Hmm… yeah. (^.^) That’s how the guy I like seems, but maybe a tiny bit more confident. I don’t know, because he talks to my brother and my brother’s friend sometimes. (About video games, apparently). *Rolls eyes*
    - Diamond-head97
      
      its hard to say u know, i always want to do something confidently but end up runaway. xD hahaha but im not afraid now
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      Lol, I guess you’re like me. XD
    - Diamond-head97
      
      ,aybe we should open a new one lol
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      ^ ^ ^
      | | |
      Yeah, new one up top. xD
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      Haha, have you noticed how small our reply boxes are getting?!!

StarWars

asian guys are so attractive xD

I Like Pie <3

IKR?!! LOL.
- Diamond-head97
  
  this is just random. hehe
  - Tourniquet1010
    
    I know…
    - Diamond-head97
      
      anyways, merry christmas xD
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      Aww, thankyou! :D You too, by the way. (Sorry I haven’t replied sooner). ^^’
    - StarWars
      
      Happy new year xD lol enjoy!!
    - Tourniquet1010
      
      You too!!! XD
Sharon

I agree! However, I find them too shy for me and I don’t quite understand their dating ways! I am just back from the Philippines where I met the most beautiful asian man with long jet black hair down to his ass! I’m Irish, 5ft 9 with blonde/red hair and I am hot – lol !!

When I met this man – I was instantly attracted to him – he’s a musician and sang Sex On Fire for me (one of my fave rock songs!!) in one of the pubs in Makati! He gave my friend his number (I had no phone as was on holidays!) to give to me that night! He was meant to show up at a family wedding and then a family dinner etc but didn’t.

I met him after that and he introduced me to his parents – my friend said its something to do with their intentions being pure – which is really sweet if that is the case!! I didn’t meet him again despite speaking to him on the phone!! He was afraid that I would break his heart by going home – this was the weirdest encounter I have ever had with a man. While I would like to think that Asian men and White women could be a couple – I am not so sure after my holidays – which is a pity because Asian men will always be my first choice – this started with my huge crush on Bruce Lee when I was a child – lol !
- http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
  
  Speaking of bruce lee, he never got laid in enter the dragon. Be honest, does your Philippino dude have a small peepee?

Tourniquet1010

(@ apple pie)

Yay! New box. =D

Diamond-head97

u said u were in australia, where about?
- I Like Pie <3
  
  I used to live in Tasmania, but I recently moved to Queensland!! :D
Diamond-head97

coz my bros and sis study there so i go to aus every year….lol -.-
- Tourniquet1010
  
  Lol xD
  - Diamond-head97
    
    not the same place hehe xD

herpderp

wow, typical asian man indoctrinated into the belief that “white is right”. seriously? you’d never consider dating a black girl with dark skin (as if they don’t get enough shit about it from black men and the media) but an indian girl is okay? you do know that some indians can be darker than black people, right?

i would hope that as an asian man, knowing how much discrimination your racial background incites, you’d be at least open to the possibility of becoming attracted to anyone, regardless of their skintone.

i happen to be a “light skinned” biracial women who happily dates men from all backrgounds (current boyfriend is korean), and hate people approaching me because of my skin tone. try to at least be wary of this murky preference of yours, yeah?

Ganmichael

Ya Mon, wha ya say baby love!! lol haha put some oxtail gravy on them rice and peas!! make it nice mon:) lmao

Taecsearcandy

deleting comments that criticize your racial bias, i see.

Slipperydot

Hi, I am asian male born and raise in Australia, brisbane.
First of all to the asian brother if you want to date a western girl you ‘Need’ to talk to them, have fun, joke and laugh! That simple! I have date many race before but now that i am settling down i am dating an asian nothing too personal to the lovely caucasian girls.
Some caucasian know that some asian only date for fun and sorry but it’s true. But in saying that there are generally asian guys do want to marry western girls.

My frist date to a western girl was when i was in grade 9 and how we first met was in class, she sat in front of me and her friend told me she like me and she was beautiful but it only last for a year cause i was an idiot and got greedy :( Playa!

Now I am 33 years old and looking back at all the relationship …. guys, guys, if u want a girl to like you and fall madly in love with you , just be yourself and have fun, you dont need to speed alot of money on her, unless it her birthday and on occassionly if you want to be romantic, suprise her with flowers and chocolate but only if she the romantic type.
(If you go on a first date or have dinner, pay for the meal.)

Where to meet caucasian girls, go to pubs, clubs, bar, gym, just be bloody active and ”Talk’
…………………… Understand the body language of a girl, she will give you signs.
Make friends with them and dont freeze ‘Up’ chat, chat, chat!!!!
Good luck to my ‘Asian bro’
take care..

Tourniquet1010

Yay for Brisbane, Australia! (I live there!!) xD

chinkydude

im asian male. dated all whites ever since 12. all white girls love me like sucky sucky babyy. no in all reality. we fucking rock.

haha.

chinkydude

& seriously, all the asians posting in here make me sick. ur all a disgrace for selling yourselfs out short on the internet. go be with ur girlfriend u fckn l0sers haahaha (eating a bowl of rice as im typing)

Diamond-head97

Happy New Year everyone! xD YEAHHHHH

Tourniquet1010

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! XD

Justice

I just want to point out, white American culture do not really accept multiculturalism unless if you appear similar to them. Just look at many African-American and Asian-American celebrities like the late Michael Jackson, Kristen Kreuk, Beyonce Knowles, Michelle Branch, supermodel Tyra Banks, Alicia Keys etc all became famous because they resemble white people. Asian men obviously are more desirable in Asia especially in Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines.

Müller

From Austria
I am married to a euroasian girl who is half japanese and half hungarian. Her looks is magnificent and she is awesome in bed.

Sapphire

I know this is kinda an old post, but really I’m a white girl who loves Asians but I’m surrounded by Mexicans! I have not seen a single Asian my age here at all the only knows I know of are in High School and while they’re cute they’re a bit young or out of my league. I wish I could meet some Asians and have the chance to go out with one, it’d be a great experience I know it ^^

Laura

I’m a Caucasian girl, and I am with a Vietnamese boy. I personally find Asians more attractive than other races. I know many girls who have the same view as me. Don’t lose hope. I honestly almost lost hope myself, I thought Asian men only wanted Asian women, not a white girl like me. I’m glad I was proved wrong. I am in my most successful relationship now. He is very handsome to me, with a personality almost as attractive as him. :)

Loveloverpao

I only date Asian guys, I used to date Caucasian, but now I find Asian man WAY more attractive. I’m learning Japanese :3 a lot of my guy friends say I’m way beautiful, that I can get any men I want, but… I’m not like that, I try to pick challenges, deserve them for what I am inside, an Asian guy is cute and will have to love me on the inside if he’s willing to date someone out of his culture

Aliciabutterfly

Im not an Asian virgin (Chinese ex) but I usually date white blokes. Japanese guys are so hot!

Elle

Haha I’m right there with Angela! I love Asian guys. There are not very many of us, but we do exist.
:)

Leo

I hope i find you then!!!

Ron

White girls who date Asian guys are bisexual because, if you look, out of all the races of men, Asian men look the most feminine, have the smallest penises etc. Any straight White girl will go for a Black guy with big penises in general, or thier own kind of white men who are also masculine, or indian men who have the same charateristics ! So, if you think you Asian guys are so hot with White women, think again………the only white women you get see you as the least Masculine because they are looking for feminine Boys !

Svenjaju1107

I’ m a german girl and me and my friends do really love asian guys. But they are all so shy. It’s hard to find one. Greetz

Ganmichael

Read the comments I’ve posted responding to ZOBO. It might help you:)
Radioactivexkid

hi my name is chris i like long walks on the beach and unicorns. im also asian
Leo

Well here I am!!!!!
Mistahhjin

Hi young tall and handsome here
Wanna be ail buddies. First?
:3
Not a creep
20, Korean 5’11″

Aidenwood

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Ashley

Yes-Thank you! Don’t be shy guys~there are Causacian girls who love Asian guys! Where I live though, there aren’t many at all (Mid West USA). :(

Rongee2

so you mean these white girls love Feminine featured small penised men ! Ha, I’ve always said Caucasian women are ‘Near’ Bisexual, meaning they may not be sexually attracted to another woman (s) but are attracted to men that look like women and have the smallest penises of all men !
Dragonballevosucked

Please don’t stereotype asian guys, not all of them are shy. And try not to flirt especially on asian guys (remember asian guys have the most negative stereotypes) if you’re not into them, get to know them first and then flirt. I’ve had my heart broken so many time from white girls thinking they really liked me, but they prefer white guys.

Dragonballevosucked

I’ve noticed most people relate to their ethnicity first, even the ones that like asian guys only. An asian man finding the white girl he likes and the white girl likes him back is almost impossible, because of natural selection. However, that’s not to say there aren’t any white women that don’t give a asian man a chance, but I’ve got a message for these women who are neutral – THERE WILL NEVER BE THE IDEAL ASIAN GUY OR ANY GUY, please don’t buy into the negative stereotypes. I’ve met women who were neutral (just like what this graph is showing), and they really liked me a lot, but they all have preferences which I don’t fit, and I’m a really good looking asian guy.

Dragonballevosucked

“An asian man finding the white girl he likes and the white girl likes him back is almost impossible” I meant initial attraction.

Amnesty96

Just wondering how older white women can meet Japanese American who are in their late 40s. It seems impossible. I live in LA, but it seems like it’s hard to even find 40 something Japanese men who are willing to date same age white women. Maybe San Francisco is a better place to meet open minded men my age. Any advice?

Mistahhjin

Hello there
20, year old Korean
Living in California bay area

I absolutely love white girls,
But there’s not thy many that live around y area
Mostly Mexican and Filipino

I’d love to date a European r white girl from the bay area

Email me!
Mistahhjin@hotmail.com

Ljubav_daje_krila

White and loving my Asian lover. Would not trade him for anything.

AlexN

In the state that I live, Texas, I have to say that the red zone and gray zone girls are the majority. Maybe just red zone. They even don’t want to try to know an Asian guy. Which frustrating me because I am so much eager to date a Caucasian girl! I really want to know where could I find this green zone girls? Anyone has ideas about it and please tell me!

00LovelyJ

You will have better luck in more liberal areas like Los Angeles, San Francisco, Chicago and New York. Also Portland Oregon. Those are the largest Asian/white blended communities. Texas is very conservative as a whole (except Austin) and you will have a tougher time meeting white women who want to date outside their culture/ethnicity.

Go to the bigger cities or have online dating with women from those bigger, more liberal cities and see what happens! Good luck!
- theone
  
  Because of the negative media portrayal of asian men being effeminate, nerdy, and one dimensional mean characters, most white girls aren’t into asian guys. Even those liberal areas you mentioned are not necessarily the best places. Best places for asian men are countries like France, Sweden, Vietnam, philippines, Bulgaria, Germany, etc and never English speaking countries like the United States, England, Australia…I’m not sure about Canada.
  - AlexN
    
    I am trying to find some common characteristics on white girls that might like Asian guy. How about those having traveled or studied in Asian like Taiwan, Hongkong or South Koren? I encountered one blonde in a store that she said she went to China for learning Chinese. But apparently, she’s with her boyfriend at that time. Sadly. So I think I need to know someone like her. I just wondering where can I find those girls.
    - Linneus
      
      Those girls can be found on websites that talk about their interest in traveling to those countries.
    - Snowbunny
      
      One thing I’ve noticed is that asian guys are often shy… which is cute… but if the guy is too shy and the girl who has never dated an asian before (and many assume asian guys aren’t interested in white women) is also too shy… well then youhave the crux of the problem…
    - Matt
      
      This is what I’ve been talking about. White women automatically assume the asian guy is not assertive and too effeminate so therefore asian guys (specifically east asian men) aren’t given a chance. I blame white women, they’re nothing but sluts no offense.

Andrew

So Cal is way different than what you guys are saying… im asian dating another asian girl but from what ive seen in southern California. white chicks love asian guys. pretty much see a hot white girl / asian guy couple every where here. Asian stereotype is dying off here. asian got swag :D

AlexN

Any Caucasian lady in southern California wants to have a Asian friend who lives in Texas now? Contact me please!

Terrian

I am an Asian male looking for caucasian lady for LTR.

poor

I too am an Asian male looking for caucasian lady for LTR, I’m tired of masturbating.

AlexN

Since I see so many comments here from Asian mans said “want to have a Caucasian lady for LTR.” I would like to challenge you guys to have a brain storm for this question: If you are a Caucasian girl who only likes Asian guy to be boyfriend, where should you start to find that guy? This question may be weird because rarely do I think that Caucasian girl existed. But let’s discuss about it.

Wayfererr

heyy , soo I’m European girl and I’m looking for asian guy. If u interested write ur email lolz. !

AlexN

alexander.nee09@gmail.com. Though I am in U.S., I would like to be a friend of you if you like.
po

@Wayfererr,thats great, I was tired of masturbating.
- Wayfererr
  
  lol :DD wtf?

kitsune787

we are SOOO out there, Believe me. ;)

Matt_Johnson

@kitsune787, I’m sure there are, but most women (even asian women) in english speaking countries tend to stereotype and lacks empathy for asian dudes. There’s even youtube videos about this, I am not making any of this up guys, it’s reality. English speaking women are mostly interested in white, black, latino men first, sometimes pacific islander and finally asian men that make a lot of money.

You can see the imbalance in the media, just look at Mark Z. that married an asian lady, but if an asian guy married a white lady like Al Gore’s daughter marrying an asian dude, I didn’t see that posted all over the internet or saw it on the news, no one cares to see asian guys because most english speaking women don’t support them. This is another reason why Hollywood is struggling to represent asian guys because there’s no money to generate any revenue, WOMEN NEED TO START SUPPORTING ASIAN MEN for fair representation in the media beside once in awhile seeing an occasional asian guy on tv. Even two broke girl’s creator had to make an apology for failing to represent asian men fairly.

Nickpjewc2010

Hi I’m an Asian guy! I love Caucasian girls so much! Please get in touch with me…I thought it was impossible to date a caucasian girl thinking that they wouldn’t like Asian men! WE ASIAN MEN LOVE U CAUCASIAN GIRLS!!!
nickpjewc2010@ gmail.com

Tiniermemolly

I’m a caucasian girl and asians are so attractive in my opinion :F I’ve always felt that way.

Matt_Johnson

Even if you like asian guys, most interracial relationships especially asian dudes with white chicks ends really badly and sometimes hostile. I’m not making this up I know one couple where the asian dude raped his white girlfriend and strangled her to death because she was talking to her male friends on her cell phone.
Matt_johnson

Like I mentioned in my earlier posts, I really don’t see how this interracial couple could work when there are far more racism and stereotype than reverse.

Louie

All im gonna say is it does work, 2 of my asian uncles r married to white girls for many many yrs. And about only fat, ugly white girls dating asian guys, dats not true. My friend is a very beautiful australian girl and she has a filipino boyfriend. Im dating a beautiful, amazing czech girl n its been almost 3 yrs since we started going out. So its not impossible, just try coz if u dont, u got 0% chance of getting da girl u love but if i try, atleast u got a chance :)

Matt_johnson532

Wrong actually. Women like to be surprised and if a guy is too nice and tries, you’re seen as a wuss and it never attracts the females. I don’t know where you’ve seen beautiful white women with asian men, most of the ones i’ve seen the white women are butt ugly and a lot of them are grossly overweight.
- Snowbunny
  
  That is such an outdated view. What kind of girls are YOU trying to catch? I think maybe your radar needs adjusting becuase you are sounding more and more like one of those poor schmucks who repeatedly go after the same shallow types again and again. Shallow is as shallow does I suppose…
  
  FYI to the normal men on here: just be yourself… most decent girls won’t be particularly impressed with machismo. Just treat her well but don’t forget that you have needs to, the world does not revolve around one person and neither party enjoys being a doormat… it’s as simple as that.
  - Matt
    
    Snowbunny baby, look…
    Asian men have needs to ok? You’re advice to pickup women does not work. The reason is, we (homo sapiens) are wired to be hunter (males), gatherers (females). Women are the ones to choose her mate while the males try to mate with any females, that’s the way nature works, and it applies from Darwins natural selection survival of the fittest theory. Most asian men (east asian) the physiognomy resembles that of nothing similar to anglo or afro features (which are universally dominant male features), and the females wants to mate with the dominant mate (again, this applies to Darwins theory). If the male is supposed to be dominant, why are east asian men always represented as being effeminate, weak, nerdy, asexual (sometimes bisexual), one dimensional losers??

Papa

if I find a 40 years white girl, I will leave a 20 years brown skinned girl for the white. Also, I like blue eyed girls very very much. I am brown skinned from Afghanistan.

Matt_johnson

Stick to your race dude, white women are not worth it, they cheat on their men because they like to have sex. Also, there are far more bigotry with asian dudes with white girls than reverse in western society.
- Carolyn
  
  Stereotype much? Not every white girl cheats, just like not every Asian guy has a small penis.
  - Matt_Johnson
    
    That’s kind of a weird analogy. Most white girls DO cheat, they’re privileged.

Jenna

I’m surprised this is a common question but then again, I’m a white gal coming from the point of view of finding Asian men (from Korean and Japanese to Indian) oh-so-attractive. I had the assumption that Asian men didn’t really go for white chics,, and not from personal experience, sadly I haven’t lived where there are large Asian populations. I find many aspects of Asian men alluring, from their dark hair to their (perhaps overly stereotyped) family values and culture.

cool

Usually men in general well find any attractive female regardless of race hard to resist…if you’re good looking, race doesn’t really matter even for asian guys.
Matt

White women are privileged compared to other nationality of women in western/american society, and since white people are the majority, they do whatever they want, like even make racist videos making fun of asian dudes. I’ve seen them they’re all over youtube. Most of these youtube videos are from America, Australia, and England. White women also hate asian men (specifically east and southeast asian) the most and racism is taught by females, not the males that most people were to be believe so it makes sense women in general are racist. Check out this site. http://www.evanmarckatz.com/bl…

Carolyn

I’m a caucasian girl and I’m only attracted to Asian guys. Other races just don’t attract me at all.
I’m nit racist or anything! I just prefer Asians.

Jim

White women are nothing but hoars..

Lizzy

I love Asian boys :D <3

Zack

Youve got Facebook ?

Matt

I am a bigot and apologize for everything I have stated now that I realize I am retarded and wrong

Matt_johnson

I am a bigot and apologize for everything I have stated now that I realize I am retarded and wrong
- http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
  
  That’s not me.
http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson

Ha ha that’s not me lol!!
http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson

To you imposter that’s using my name, I’m going to say this one last time:

Most white women I’ve seen with asian men, the white women are grossly overweight or nerdy looking with the slight hint of a mustache, but ironically most of the asian women with white men, asian women are smoking hot and the white guy is usually even better looking than the asian girl! Also, society usually falls under the majority and asian men are the smallest (no pun intended) minority in western society even though I heard on the news they’re a rising population. The increase in population doesn’t mean anything, considering asian dudes have to compete with pretty white boys and groovy latin boys and masculine black dudes, so asian men do not have a chance. What cool, pop cultural things have asian guys in western societies have accomplished that’s not already been done?…Nothing! There are exceptions like Bruce Lee and Charlie Chan, but they’re exceptions. Asian men are known for being wealthy and highly skilled, but being highly skilled and being wealthy without perception is useless and therefore has no true value…it’s not going to get you laid. In western societies, asian men are automatically perceived as computer experts and karate experts. Is that sexy to white females or just the ones that are into that which most of them are not? Most asian men don’t have a chance in western society no matter how much money and confidence and fashion or whatever asian guy has, as long as white men are in power, asian men (east asian men I’m referring to) are seen as bottomless, sexless, asexual beings. If you don’t believe me, just check out Bruce Lee in Enter the Dragon flick, why is he the only character that didn’t get laid??!!…Just being honest and realistic.
- Wingzero203
  
  I follow your reasoning as to how the media portray Asian men in television and movies. However, I grew up with Bruce Lee and Enter the Dragon and you honestly cannot sum up everything with that one movie. It’s not about Enter the Dragon, it’s about common practice in media. Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, and Jet Li’s movies never involve rescuing a girl, possibly sleeping with her, and then riding off in the sunset happily ever after at the end.
  
  Also case in point, remember the 2000 movie “Romeo Must Die” with Jet Lie and Aaliyah? Jet Li and Aaliyah actually screen-tested a kiss in an alternate ending which was shown to a test audience before the movie release and it got an overwhelmingly negative response.
  
  The only movie I can think of where the hero is Asian and gets the girl at the end is the 1992 flick Rapid Fire with the late Brandon Lee (Bruce Lee’s son). All other representations involve non-charismatic portrayals such as stupidity (Harold & Kumar), a Martial Arts expert with ridiculous talent but is asexual (Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, etc., pick your favorite), computer/science geek (Revenge of the Nerds), etc.
  
  As an Asian American guy looking to date my first white girl, the only conclusion I can come up with is that we Asian guys have to step it up all across the board in order to be socially accepted by Caucasian females. That includes making good money job-wise/solid career, possibly a nice car (not necessarily luxury), have our own place, but also being down-to-earth, confident, charming, humorous, spontaneous, basically the things most girls want in a man.
  - Matt
    
    Sorry, I made my apology in my other comments. I know very well about the media’s portrayal of asian men and the problems hollywood filmmakers have representing minorities fairly. I believe since there isn’t a asian male in english speaking that is a breakout star, western media is too scared to invest in an unknown.

Snowbunny

Wow… I had no idea this was such a hot topic. I’m a white female who lives in a rural New England area. There is very very little racial difference, and something like 97% of the population is white… which is a shame in my opinion. I grew up here surrounded by white skin, and yet I’m actually a very open minded individual. I find men of all races and colors attractive, and even more attractive if they have the personality to match. Boistrous to sweet it doesn’t relly matter as long as they are decent and respectful. Personally, I find the majority of asian men to be quite beautiful and mysterious, and this includes Indian and Middle Eastern men. I’ve had to fight family values issues as well since I don’t hesitate to voice my admiration to every handsome man I see regardless of race or ethnicity and for a long time I recieved a lot of negative family feedback about it. Now they’ve just opened their eyes a little wider.

I did briefly date a guy from Nepal, but I was still in high school and he was a liiittle to eager for me if you catch my drift. So my first (and coincidentally only) experience wasn’t very good. After that relationship I was by no means adverse to dating another asian man, however in a state with so little diversity there simply wasn’t the opportunity. However, I still flirt shamlessly with the cute guy at the Chinese place… even though I’m taken I still can’t help it…. he’s just too cute!

That said, even though I have a great attraction for non-white men (especially Asians… I’ll admit it… that Jackie Chan is one hunk of man and Gakt makes me swoon!), I’ve ended up with a giant German, lol! (My fiance stands at 6’5″ and I barely make it to 5’2″) He just happens to be the one I’ve fallen in love with. :)

Asian men looking for little competition? Move to the northeastern boonies of th United States. You’ll have fan girls oggling you like there’s no tomorrow. However it’s very boring here…unless you really likes trees and hiking. ;)

Matt

I’ve visited northeast, very very racist, more racist than some parts of the south. Again, not to sound like I’m beating around the bush, but there’s really no place in any english speaking society an asian guy feels special. Asian women don’t have this problem. Remember the struggle with Bruce Lee? And he was trying to survive in the 60s and 70s, things have not changed much from back then and now in terms of asian men as being represented as an american, there’s always an asian reasoning. So, asians are still considered foreigners, more than latins and blacks. In fact in some ways, representation of asians have gotten worse. Just look at all the recent hollywood movies like the last airbender, dragonballevo, 21, king of fighters, prince of persia, etc none of these asian stories star an asian hunk for the lead, the only time you see an asian man is in the background as a nobody sometimes you see jackie chan but he’s always paired up and jet li in american films are a joke, he only does one dimensional films, which isn’t really his fault.
Matt

But you go ahead Snowbunny and believe that white people don’t have problems with minorities. You’re living la la land, you must be on drugs or something to have not have noticed any problems white/anglo people have with minorities. My white/anglo friends growing up in high school always bragged to me that asians are an easy target because they don’t fight back.
Matt

Another thing that really pisses me off about white women is that they are so prudish and don’t commit to anything and asian men don’t have a chance at all, most white/anglo women are kind of racist and go for white/latin men only, sometimes black dudes, and dark skin dudes. I suppose there are different types of asians as well. You got the east asians (skewed), southeast asians (flat nosed), and central asians (brown skin). White women also sleep around way too much compared to other nationality of women.
Matt

Seriously though, how many white females are actually commenting, or are all females that have commented are males pretending to be white females?? I do not condone hate, but I get irritated with white/anglo women because a lot of them are too inviting and liars and the ones that actually claim they like asian men, I think these women need help. After what I’ve researched and stated about the truth about white women and asian men from these internet websites, you guys get all upset by the truth. But you don’t want to hear the truth, you know why, we all like to pat ourselves in the back “a job well done” attitude when nothing has been accomplished. THERE HASN’T BEEN ANY PROGRESS IN THE LAST 50 YEARS FOR ASIAN MEN AND MOSTLY LIKELY THERE WON’T BE IN THE NEXT 50 YEARS. White/anglo women are just too discriminating and don’t give asian men (specifically east and southeast) a chance.
Matt

I apologize for my rant Snowbunny, and Jessie, and all the white/anglo women I’ve offended. You’re right I have been burned, many many times by white/anglo women. I’m a very good looking east asian guy and I have been flirted on by white/anglo women but I always get rejected. I did everything for these white/Anglo women, but they were just using me. I think it’s because I don’t have much money, (they like me because I’m so physically attractive) I couldn’t help myself being in love, they came on to me. I thought maybe I was cool enough to feed their egos with lavish gifts (even though I don’t have much money), but I was just too nice and kind of weirded them out which is a real turn off for some women I guess. From my experience, women are looking for the strong, sensitive, educated, confident guy and race has nothing to do with anything (and I know I’ve been making fun of my own Asian race, and I’m sorry about that, I’ve just been so depressed, suicidal). I get tired of being perceived a certain way because of my ethnicity and the times I’ve dated white/anglo women, I get people staring at us…sometimes in disgust (and I live in a northern liberal state) and I would get really worked up about this, yeah I know I’m being selfish, but it bothers me.

Rob

I wish caucasian girls around me date asian guys. I live in NJ and it seems like the only guys i see with white girls are white obviously, some hispanic and oddly enough, an equal amount of black guys (vs white guys). Im filipino but i was born and raised in nj. Im fully americanized though as i dont know much about my own culture. I dont speak or understand tagalog (filipino language) lol. Ever since i was young, i been REALLY attracted to white girls. For as far back as i can remember, probably to early in my grammar school years. I even had a crush on these set of caucasian twins when i attended tae kwon do school LOL!! I was 12 at the time. I knew these are the girls ill always be attracted to. In high school, there was mostly hispanic girls and while alot of them ARE attractive, i wasnt really attracted to them. My attraction to white girls grew even more once i left high school and started to explore the world, hanging out etc. It was an attraction that became into an infatuation. There could be a really pretty asian girl or a spanish girl and i would be completely normal. But if i come across a pretty white girl, its like im dumbfounded by her presence. I become completely shy and lose all train of thought lol. Its very hard to explain but the best i can describe the feeling is being almost star struck when you see a celebrity in person, thats the feeling i get when im around a pretty white girl. Thats what they really do to me, but they dont know it lol. They would probably think its weird and become unattracted by that. Thats another point in which is related to the subject in question. I believe most caucasian girls wont/dont date asian guys because maybe they think we’re weird and shy. While alot of us are shy, we’re not weird. I think we probably act weird, because like me, your presence do something to us to where we dont know how to act around you. Your presense is that special to us!!! Also i believe alot of asian guys have low self esteem. Because we think we’re not good enough to get one of you awesome gals! I consider myself pretty average. Im not an extremely good looking asian but im far from an ugly one (yes there are many really good looking asian guys and really ugly ones, thats the truth). Im athletic, i have a nice body, a car, a good job etc but even then, i sometimes find myself trying to MAKE myself believe im not good enough for a white girl. Even though by todays standards, im well qualified. I see all these guys cheating on their girls, not taking care of their health, drinking beer having beer bellies, etc. Meanwhile im doing the opposite. So then why do these awesome white girls stay with their man??? I really wish more white girls give us asian guys a chance. We’re GOOD guys. We dont cheat (well i dont), we’re very faithful, we like activities so we stay in shape, we have good jobs (im going to school to become a nurse!! :D ), and we’re just fun to be with. This is a really long comment so i thank you if you read the whole thing. My advice to white girls out there is PLEASE, give us a chance!!! Even if you have had a bad experience with ONE asian guy, please try again, you will get a good one.

Zack

Im an Korean guy, white girls aren’t self hating, maybe they just wanna know more bout us. Oh and yea, I DIG THEM haha. Hit me back, just to chat :)

Zack

Why did I find this very funny. Supposely this is a free poll. SO everyone can pour out they’re feelings w/out having any doubts. Haters out there, BEWARE

Zack

Asian Male, 5′ 6”, Pop culture progressive, Outgoing, Im real and I hope you guys are too :)
jabberwock93@live.com

roger

Only the BI-SEXUAL & NEAR-SEXUAL ONES ! (i.e. – Near Bisexual = Attracted to Oestregen filled, Feminine featured Asian males with small penises ! eg: John Gossling !)

IqbalAdaru

I’m an Asian guy (Indonesia), 18 yo.
and i really want to date with caucasian girl.

Janna Milivojevic

I am from Serbia.I am 13 and I would like to have Asian boy one day.I listen to K-pop.So I prefer Koreans. :D

Allie

Same!! I was so into the Korean culture I learned how to read write and speak Korean and I LOVE KPOP!

Adams

White men have always been seen as the default in interracial dating. It’s as if society’s general understanding of
Interracial dating = colored women dating white guys. But it doesn’t have to be that way! If you’re a Black women you
can date a Punjabi! If you’re a White woman you can date a Native American! If you’re a Latina you can date a Kenyan!
You have options! You have choices! Life isn’t McDonalds where you only have Vanilla soft serve – HELL NO! You’re at an
ice cream shop on steroids! This is Baskin Robins 5000 flavors!!!

I don’t want people in society to keep thinking that Interracial dating is a white centric thing. I want you guys to try
ALL of the ethnicities under the cancer inducing sun! But remember: if you want a man who is cultured, who understands
what you’ve been through, who will worship the ground you walk on, who will be the father of your childen, who will laugh
with you, who will understand your need to be with family… try dating an Asian man – we’re AWESOME!
should you think you need a real ADVENTURE full with fun, laugh and load with new discoveries. well write to me and let the
ice breaking commence. Who knows if somehow, somewhere, someday our simple HI will lead us to an adventure which will end
up at the gates of Eden – paradise. life is short anyway, every seconds is on counting.. so why are you keep reading this
anyway? ..
go- write to me **wink >> aeryl_alsagoff@yahoo.com

Matt

Yeah. I feel majority of white people are decent, however, the ones that cause trouble are the ones that make the decent white people look bad same with minorities. Someone once told me white people are generally scared of minorities. Even though I’m asian, I have lot of black and hispanic friends and they’re decent, hardworking individuals who don’t do drugs, or cause any trouble and yet they still have to work harder to prove that they’re worth it, even with dealing with people who put them down. Even in relationships, many white women (I’m not saying all) would not give them a chance, and these are good looking guys.

I get depressed a lot, what’s the point in working hard if you are a minority and don’t the respect you deserve? I know it’s selfish what I’m saying, but very few people (except for liberals) would even care about racism/ discrimination even though it’s everywhere.

Millierose82

i love asian guys.am white female 53.i lost my malaysian partner a while ago and am ready now to start again xx

Vegabond

What’s all the fuss? I’ve been married twice both to attractive white females Still am to my current one, 11 years. Most of my ex girlfriends were white,couple of latinas and Korean girls. I’m Korean American grew up in US surrounded by mostly white people.
I know couple of other Korean Americans guys who are married to white females.

Interesting incident once I was at a small neighborhood park, I live in a very urban well to do yuppie area. My wife and I took our daughter to the park and we noticed there were 4 other white women with Eurasian looking kids out of probably 12 kids running around.
WOW ! That was the probably the largest percentage of Eurasians kids I’ve seen at one time. So that proves there are many Asian American men dating white women considering Asian Americans are a very small minority in America compared to Hispanics or blacks.
Another interesting observation, most East Asian male/white female relationships are based on equal terms, they are both usually professionals, intelligent people unlike many white guys with mail brides from some poor southeast Asian country where the women are depended on their white husbands.

http://www.facebook.com/rgunasekera Ruwan Dilhan Gunasekera

Meagan Fox ONLY said Rain’s Abs are sexy……..she did NOT say that the rest of the man was sexy. Even women have six packs, so nothing to caw about Megan fox thinking asian men are hot ! You got it all wrong !
Plus, a six pack is not natural ! Like pumping iron anyone can get it !

Heidi

I am a white girl and only date Asian men… =) There is hope guys!

Allie

I’m white and I love Asian guys. My parents are totally fine with it and they know I’m going to marry a Korean guy when I grow up. But the hard thing is the culture. Personally I learned how to read, write and speak Korean so I don’t have any problems with being family orientated.

http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson

@4a4329f5053c2d9e9c853d44a4df959c:disqus
Don’t force yourself just so that you can be with a korean dude, that’s where racism starts…be with any dude regardless of his race because you like him. On the other hand, most or all white women are not attracted to people of color, white women go for their race first, only asian women are open to other races.
- guy
  
  I agree very much matthew. Once you target a certain gender, there could be confusion and misinterpretation. I work with 3 Korean guys and in an area where its HIGHLY populated by Koreans. While their culture is very interesting, I have found most of them are racists themselves. There are many arguments I have had with my Korean coworkers about their beliefs. Like remember when japan suffered that tsunami tragedy like 2 years ago? Well my great Korean coworkers were laughing and cursing them saying “good for you stupid japs”. Just because of the Korea/japan history any decades ago. They also call Hispanic people “stupid” and think white women are whores. Of course it doesn’t apply to all Korean guys I’m sure lots of them are very nice and polite. But I been working with them and associated with them since 2008, they are ALL the same. Very rude and 2 faced.
  - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
    
    Thanks man. I just want to point out also that even though Obama has been re-elected, that still doesn’t mean this country will stay progressive. I’m hoping it would and now is the perfect time for liberals and minorities to work hard and not complain too much. I remember reading a story about Abraham Lincoln when he first announced the Emancipation Proclamation to free the slaves. Many white men from the north were very angry and blacks were hanged, burned, and tortured in New York city. White men didn’t want to fight for the slaves. About 100 African-Americans were killed because of the result mostly by poor Irish men. I’m not saying we live in slaver time, however, I just feel too much liberalism too quickly will backfire and once again we be would be facing another idiot politician like Bush. Social issues have to be taken slowly, I hate to say that but that’s the only way to be truly free, America is just not there yet. Guy Ayoki from MANNA feels Asian-Americans are about 40 years behind blacks.
    - http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DCLDO27OV5AQTOT442H7LLIG3A Matthew Johnson
      
      Also, did you guys know during Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky scandal, it was actually a distraction from atrocities that was happening in North Korea? I remember Ted Koppel made an apology for not covering the famine crisis in North Korea because of the scandal. 1 and a half million people died in a period of 4 years from famine. People were so hungry that they were eating tree bark and also taking orphaned kids and killing them for meat (chopping them up to mix it in soup). True story, there were kids that escaped and told what was happening. I hope that Obama won’t make the same mistake like Clinton with some kind of stupid scandal.

jay

When I was younger,white girls did like me,but cause of cultural differences and fear of being accepted in society,I did not pursue them.There were blondes and brunettes and I would rate them around 8.Now I want a Caucasian girl and feel it’s harder,though not impossible.I notice that when I do go out with a white girl,they love my eyes,personality and just find me cute.The only challenge I face is them giving me the time of day,and that is when I get rejected,when I don’t receive it.I think they assume that all brown guys are a certain type.I infact am very open minded,go to gym and yoga regularly.

Matt

I hear ya man, I can tell a lot of white girls that were interested because I’m good looking, and some of them were very hot…wow were they hot! Because of societal discrimination, I didn’t do anything about it either, I get racist remarks from other kids at school and sometimes they were hostile with me.
Matt

Also, I feel really bad that I’ve been saying negative things about white women i was frustrated that the white women that i’ve come across were playing games and not give me a chance at all whether it’s because of racism or lack of commonality just like what this website is saying with that curve chart that most white women are neutral. I contemplated suicide many times.

I feel the neutral ones are not aware of the positive asian culture due to the lack of media coverage but for some reason the media has no problems covering negative things about asian cultures, and so that’s what most american men and women have in their heads about asians particularly asian men…just like what a lot of non blacks view about blacks because of the violence in Chicago with the gangs. Finding one that appreciates your culture in a society that’s not about your culture is trying to find a needle in a haystack. It’s almost impossible. The only way really to get any woman you want is if you are millionaire or billionaire or a famous person like a rock star or an actor or someone that every woman wants.

bc

I miss my childhood sweetheart. Her family have migrated to Australia some twenty years ago from Singapore. I still miss her a lot but she seems to have already forgotten who I am. I figured that I will just devote my next half of my life to sailing across the oceans as a marine engineer in order to try to forget her.

I did not try because I wanted to let her have what she thought was best for her. I wish you all the happiness you deserve.

Chung Cary

i am chinese 5’11″ “people said i have a model figure… and look like keanu reeves/johnny depp with a chinky eye of crouse” ==….weird , im not compliment myself here at all but i have zeroooooooooooo lucks with noooooooooooooooo white, latina, or european girl….but my self esteem is pretty low when it comes to non-chinese gals, i speak fluent english but just not able to find any white gals that we both attract to each other…..is it my personlity thing people said i look to cool and dont talk much…so that might be the issues..and i fear of being rejection….same old me…lame

Jim

Yeah, I feel you dude. Most women are interested in knowing the guy first, so it’s up to the guys to make the woman want you. You have to make them be attracted to you, even if you’re good looking. Say sarcastic things instead of being your boring self. Be normal instead of being too nice, women can tell you’re desperate if you’re too nice.
- Chung Cary
  
  that’s exactly my issues, everytime i go out i always around the corner and being myself and rest of my male gang are go there having fun. and i am being dumb A$$…… and i have zero guts talking to any “girl” but i have no easy to click with any dude to talk and we can chat all night and stuff (not gay but its easier to carry on a conversation) i guess my motive is control my action. once the is gal is attracted and talk to me, my mind is somewhere else, try to impress, being “too” nice, and led to brain freeze….and than i will voluntary walk away being cool. ask u said i should act normal….i guess down to the bottom my self esteem is pretty damn low, and if i got reject people and friend will laugh at you because she are not success…so, yup!! thats just me below the skin..thank bro!!!

Seouljyu

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jay

@71f8e010aefd9eaf5c32bfdccf5309d7:disqus R u into brown(South Asian) guys at all?I am fair skinned, 5’10″ 170lbs athletic.

http://www.asiandatingcoach.com Bonsai

Hi JeongSoo,

What is stated in Magic Bullets is true; women will always go for the healthy and powerful male if possible. Does that mean every male that is not healthy and not powerful does not get girls? Of course not.

You have to remember that you do not have to hit ALL attraction switches to attract women. For some women, all you need to demonstrate is some preselection and humor to get her attracted to you. For others, they might just like healthy looking guys. And so on.

Figure out what your strengths are and show case them. We all have attractive qualities and with having “game” you can showcase them.

Also, I can sense you have a low self-esteem. You should read this post:
http://www.asiandatingcoach.com/2009/12/inner-confidence-perfect-person/

JeongSoo

No, not really in the self esteem thing. I am educated and have had Asian girlfriends before but white women are really elusive. My esteem is pretty good actually. Why would it be my self esteem? Cannot it not be just that I have questions? If a woman wants the best DNA, then she is going to go with a bigger healthier male. Humor does not convey good DNA. Is the writer of Magic Bullets a scientist? Does he have data to back this up? Where would anyone get that? I am more confused than before. It sounds like to me that this book is not really either accurate or none of us really has a chance. Does it not? Please let me know.

http://www.asiandatingcoach.com Bonsai

If you can get Asian girls, why wouldn’t you be able to get Caucasian girls? Girls are girls. Sure there are some cultural differences, but race has very little to do with it. You’re over analyzing things a bit too much.

Evolutionary psychology states that people will always mate with healthier people of the opposite sex to increase chances of reproduction. I think we can both agree on that. Now, that does not mean that every girl will ALWAYS go for the “healthier” male. A lot of factors come into play like, her self-esteem (does she think she can get that guy), logistical problems (the chance of hooking up does not occur), having an emotional connection (sometimes she can’t have it with the “better male”), investment levels on both partners, and so on.

A guy with same level of game but with better looks will out-game me. No doubt. Does that mean there are no girls left for me? There are tons of girls out there! I’m not worrying about that. If you have really good game, and I mean REALLY good like LS instructors, you will out-game the majority of guys. But there are still guys who might have the same level of game and better looks / more money, that will outgame me because of that. That’s just the way the world works. I didn’t make the world, I just live in it.

To sum up, there are too many women out there to worry about other men competing with you. Just focus on your own progress with women and you won’t have to think about if other “healthier” men will have to compete with you. Even when you’re learning game.

Vignesh

Hi Bonzai,

I have a couple of comments on Jeong Soo’s post, and your
replies to them:

I agree with your essential point on how there
is hope for guys who may not look like Greek gods, and the best approach to
materialize that hope is by improving your game wherever possible (via working
on the Love Systems Triad model, etc)

In your reply to Jeong Soo, you also mentioned
that “If you can get Asian girls, why wouldn’t you be able to get Caucasian
girls? Girls are girls. Sure there are some cultural differences, but race has
very little to do with it.” I realize that as a LS instructor, you probably
have lots of experience, and a very good game. I would, however, like to point
out some subtleties to the issue you bring up in the above statement. I
actually think it’s quite possible for a guy to have some success with a
certain group of girls, while having little or no success with another group (disclaimer:
this certainly doesn’t have to be a roadblock for anyone to have future success
with a group of girls with whom he hasn’t had success before, in the past). I
can elaborate further. There are many different groups of Asian girls. While it
is difficult to put people into buckets, here is a crude attempt: Asian
Americans, Asian Asians, and within these two mega-groups you have East Asians,
Southeast Asians, South Asians, Middle Easterners, and perhaps Central Asians. I
think it is certainly possible to for certain attributes of a guy to be more
appealing to a certain subgroup of Asian girls, and not having the same effect with
say, Caucasian girls. For example, I am from Singapore with grandparents from
India, and my impression is that there is a positive response with some Indians
in India when I say I study in the US. I can’t pin it down, but I could
speculate that some of the attraction is owed to the elite status of having an
overseas education, being relatively well off, etc. However, studying in the US
isn’t a novelty for college-educated US Caucasian girls. So that piece of
information is probably of no elite status value to college-educated US
Caucasian girls. This is but one example of a situation where I think something
can be rather attractive to a certain group, and not another group. Once again,
a disclaimer: such situations don’t have to become a roadblock in improving one’s
game to attract a group of girls that one hasn’t attracted before.

On a more general but related note, I think
that cultural and contextual differences can play a significant factor in the
manifestation of women’s preferences in choosing a mate (social intuition,
humor, status, etc –Magic Bullets). For example, if differences are present in
dating and sexuality norms, attitudes toward alcohol, diet, accent, perception
of status, etc between a guy and a girl, I think it is quite possible for the
presence of a lack of opportunity to meet (i.e. they are less likely to frequent
the same establishments or participate in similar outside-of-work activities). And
if the meeting does occur, there probably is less opportunity for sparks to fly
because the guy is probably not able to exhibit social intuition, humor,
status, etc in a manner that is similar to how these dating preferences have
manifested in the girl (for example, while both a Korean girl from Korea and a
US Caucasian girl may both be looking for guys with social intuition, humor, status,
etc, those traits may quite possibly carry different meanings for the two of
them). However, again I don’t think these have to become roadblocks for future
success with a group of girls one hasn’t had much past success with. I think
there could be a combination of solutions: a) identify how much of one’s differences
can be cast in a good light via good game; b) identify how much of one’s differences
one would like to change; c) identify how much of one’s differences can be
overridden by other factors (for example, as a music superstar, Rain has much
status, and cultural differences that he may have, may not be a hurdle compared
to someone with less status).

To sum up, color of skin is probably not very
important (or as you say, race has little to do with the matter), but I think culture and
context can be pretty important in the specific manifestation of dating
preferences in different groups of girls. My post is not a defense for JeongSoo to
have an excuse to validate his lack of success with Caucasian women. It is an
effort to point out some subtleties of the issue you bring up in your
statement, and to point out that I think it is possible to be able to attract a
certain group girls, without having much success with another. Once again, just because one hasn’t had past
success with a certain group of girls does not mean that it is not possible to
attract that group of girls in the future, by improving one’s game.

Vignesh

Apologies for the poor formating. I tried to cut and paste from Microsoft Word, and it looks like it didn’t work out right.

Vignesh

And sorry, it looks like I misspelled your name, Bonsai.

Matt

I think it’s pretty obvious you’re not into the small eggroll.

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