Dating Advice
6 Questions To Ask Yourself To Improve Your Game
A lot of guys have made new years resolutions to improve their game and have more women in their lives. We are now in February so I’m wondering how that is working out for you. Most people lose sight of their goals after that new year high, which is a shame. So I’m blogging here [...]
Common mistake: The Kiss of Death
There is one mistake I see guys (who try to master Love Systems) make all the time. It’s a common mistake for beginners and it’s what I call the Kiss of Death. The Kiss of Death is when you try to kiss the girl while her friends are around. If you try to kiss the [...]
Bonsai on Social Circle Game
I recently did a podcast with Vince Kelvin for the upcoming PUA Summit. The topic is about social circle game and my take on it. Check it out here.
She Is Out Of Your League….Or Is She?
I came across an interesting thread on the biggest dating advice forum for men The Attraction Forums. The topic is about a phrase I hear all to often: “She is out of your league.” You can read the thread here. The main point of the thread is that there is some truth that some women [...]
She Is Out Of Your League….Or Is She? is a post from Thanh Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach
The Real Force Behind Building Commonalities
One of the corner stones of building comfort and rapport with anyone is having commonalities. Regardless of race, sex, or age we naturally try to build commonalities when we are engaging someone in conversation, but I’ ve noticed no one really explained why we do it. We generally know that if two people have something [...]
How I Picked Up A Girl Using Foursquare
I’m a big proponent of social media. In my vision, the next couple of years social media will change the online marketing. When you look closer, it already has with the rise of Facebook and Twitter. However, I never realized how you can use it to meet girls! Earlier I wrote about how I like [...]
How I Picked Up A Girl Using Foursquare is a post from Thanh Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach
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Play The Field Before You Settle Down
Most people who study Love Systems eventually want to find that one special girl and settle down. I don’t blame them. What’s so bad about having that one girl you’re in love with and you want to spend time with? Nothing. In fact, I eventually want to settle down too. However, there is a condition [...]
Play The Field Before You Settle Down is a post from Thanh Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach
10 Tips For Getting The Most Out of Bootcamps and Workshops
Dating bootcamps and workshops are a great investment in yourself. Over a couple days you will change into a person you have always wanted to be: the guy who can be successful around beautiful women. You learn the tricks of the trade on how to become a guy that is attractive to women. Plus, you [...]
Use Social Location Sharing for Picking Venues
I love Twitter. When I first got introduced to it, maybe two years ago, I thought it was retarded. Now I’m a big fan of it. Twitter gives you the opportunity to get to know someone without actually knowing the person in real life. Plus I can stay up-to-date on what my friends are doing. [...]
Sunk Cost Applied to Dating and Relationships
When I was in college I was a Finance major. I love numbers and mathematical models. However, economics was never my favorite class. Many of the microeconomics topics never really interested me and let’s not even get started on macroeconomics. I’m more of a practical guy. Feed me information I can use today. There are [...]



