A little update on what is going on with me. This blog hasn’t been updated for a period of time. For good reasons. I’ve been working really hard behind the scenes on getting things done to improve my overall quality of life.

As you could read in my post on goals for 2010 I have a lot of things I want to achieve. The overarching idea is to always improve my quality of life and part of that is improving and expanding your social circle. One tip I always advocate is to accept the first invitation to any event. You can even take it a step further and always say YES to everything like in the movie “Yes Man” with Jim Carrey. Well…that might be a little too much.

The last 2 weeks or so have been crazy. First I got in at a private Victoria Secret party where 3 VS angels were there. I had a chance to talk to Alessandra Ambrosio and Miranda Kerr, but not Candice Swanepoel. I didn’t recognize Candice since I didn’t know she was a VS Angel. I should have talked to her. Maybe another time. There were tons of other celebrities at the party, including guys from Entourage, MTV presenters, and A-list actors. My biggest surprise was when I saw Paris Hilton. In real life, she looks really hot. I grabbed my opportunity to talk to her for a little bit by going direct on her (pretending I didn’t know her) and have a few minutes of conversation before the entourage invaded. Below is a clip where you see me partying with her.

The next day I went to San Diego for one night to network with some people at a marketing conference. Daxx and Dubbsy were there too so it was good to hangout with them outside LA. I really like San Diego. Even though was there for maybe 20 hours, I had the chance to see the nightlife briefly and Saturday morning. Tons of beautiful girls and I got the vibe the city gave off. I’m definitely going back there for a weekend to see what else the city has to offer.

Right after the networking and presentations at the marketing conference I flew to Las Vegas to party with some friends that Saturday night. Jeremy Soul (I did my first vlog with him) and Jesse Starlight were in town too (they did a day game workshop that weekend). A personal friend of mine hooked us up at the new club Haze where we had the best table (near the dance floor and DJ). It was one of the best parties I’ve been to in my life. One of my friend’s friends, he flew in about 90 girls to party with us that night. Yeah…it was that crazy. 13+ bottles, many energy drinks, a playmate, and an exotic dancer later, that’s when the night ended and morning came for me. On the right is a picture with Starlight and some of the girls we partied with.

The good thing about those 3 epic days in a row? I recorded all three days on film! I’m in the middle editing it so it will be out soon. It will showcase you how awesome the three days were. This blog post cannot describe it. One thing these days made me realize is how important social circle game is. If you apply everything you learn from Social Circle Mastery (DVD coming out soon!) it will literally change your life for the better. That’s how I got in the Victoria Secret party, expanded my social circle with successful people, improve my own quality of life, and so much more.

The next weekend, which just passed as of writing, I was at a wedding with Jeremy Soul. One of Jeremy’s cousins got married. One of the reasons I wanted to go was because Jeremy’s cousin is Sri Lankan and she was marrying a Caucasian guy. In fact, the wedding has two ceremonies (one Hindu, one Christian) so it was great to see the different cultures. Also, because it was an interracial marriage, I wanted to talk to other people at the wedding about it. It was all to expand my own horizon and knowledge on interracial dating, which is something my blog is going to cover more in the near future.

That wraps up my last two weeks. It was fun, crazy, hectic, and eye opening. Just like how one should live every day. Now I’m getting back on the blogging track.

Partying with Paris Hilton and Victoria Secret Angels is a post from Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach

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1. 3 Reasons Why You Should Learn Social Circle Game
2. Social Proof and Social Circle Game

Long answer: I get this question a lot from my fellow Asian brothers. So I’m going to tackle this question to the bone and be prepared to face some cold hard truth.

Some Caucasian girls will never date an Asian guy. They might have their own reasons for that, like they simply aren’t attracted to Asian guys, religion, family views, etc. Then you will have a group of white girls who will ONLY date Asian guys. They simply love the idea that they are dating an Asian guy and want nothing else. Yes they do exist.

However, majority of Caucasian girls have never dated an Asian guy before. Whenever I’m dating a Caucasian girl, I hear the same phrase a lot: “You’re my first Asian guy.”

You can reflect that group of girls in a bell curve, just like I did in my post where I explained you will not get every girl. I want you read that post first before you continue with this article. It will make you understand this article a lot better.

The idea is that some girls will never date you, but a lot of girls will. Accept this reality. Just look at your own preferences. There are certain types of girls you will never date, but there are also types of girls you will always go for. Then there’s a group of girls you might want to date, but perhaps have never experienced before.

Same idea applies to women on how they view dating guys.

Like for myself, I will never date a African-American girl with a very dark skin tone. I’m simply not attracted to them. On the other hand, I’m very much attracted to Caucasian women. In the middle there’s a huge pool of skin tones and types of girls I would date. For example, I haven’t dated an Indian girl yet but I’m open to the idea.

Now look at the bell curve below to see what I mean.

There’s a small group of women that will never date Asian guys. That’s the red-zone. Whenever you encounter one of those, just move on. There’s no need to waste time.

On the other end is the group of women who’s preferences is to date Asian guys. That’s the green-zone. If you meet one of those, you’re in luck!

The majority of girls is going to be in the middle (gray-zone). These girls might have not dated an Asian guy before, but would be open to do so. This is where you will need to be a little bit better than the average Asian guy to get these girls. In other words, read this blog and learn some Love Systems teachings and you’re already way ahead of the majority.

An interesting side-tangent. You or some other Asian guy should be thanking me if you end up dating the same girl I’ve dated. Why? Simply because once a Caucasian girl has dated an Asian guy before and the relationship was good, she is more likely to date an Asian guy in the future. The first Asian guy for a Caucasian girl will set the precedence of how likely that same Caucasian girl will date another Asian guy.

So if the first Asian guy was starstruck, other Asian brothers are in luck. Otherwise we might have some work left to do. That doesn’t mean that if the first relationship was bad, that the future is all dark and bad. It just means that the next Asian guy will have be a little better than the previous guy.

That’s why when I ask a girl if she has dated an Asian guy before and she says yes, I know that dating her is going to be fairly easy compared to a girl who has never dated an Asian guy before. The guy before me had to go through all the hoops and break down barriers of having her date an Asian guy. That includes family issues, friends, and so on.

Here’s a legitimate hottie, Megan Fox, saying that she would love to date Rain (Asian pop star). She is a prime example of a gray-zone girl. Never dated an Asian, but willing to do so.

If I had to summarize this post, it would be this: Some Caucasian will not ever date an Asian guy. Some girls will only date ONLY Asian guys. Most white girls have not dated an Asian guy before but are willing to date one. They are the majority.

So yes, Caucasian / white girls do like Asian guys.

Do Caucasian / White Girls Like Asian Guys? is a post from Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach