My Trip To London
I just got back from a trip to London to celebrate Jeremy Soul’s birthday. As I’m blogging about this fun trip, I’m still recovering from the weekend. As Jeremy would say, “I’m getting old man…” says the guy who just turned 27.
So friday morning I woke up at 6am, got some breakfast and headed out to catch the train to the airport. The public transport system is really good in The Netherlands (currently where I’m vacationing), something that is non-existent in Los Angeles. Once I arrived in London, Jeremy picked me up from the train station. I stayed at his place for two nights. A couple hours after my arrival we would head to central London and grab some beers with Farmer It was my first time meeting Farmer and he is a really cool guy. Over some British beers we catched up on things and we did some daytime dating too.
Now London is generally not known for having a lot of beautiful women. After living in Los Angeles and numerous Las Vegas trips, my standards for beauty is set pretty high. Any other city I’ll be visiting really has to compete, although I still want to see Miami, Stockholm, Oslo, and Moscow before I make a final judgment which city has the most beautiful women. One thing I do know is that London will not be in top 10. Every city has its 1% women, but in London they were VERY rare.
When I was at the Spearmint Rhino in London a couple hours later (with Farmer & Mr M), I gave London another shot. They had some beautiful women there. It was my first time at a strip club in the UK, so I was curious how my Love Systems skills, especially stripper game, would be different. Turns out, it’s not that much different. I just did my thing like I normally do and met this half swedish/latvian girl with ease. So all my posts on stripper game are now officially UK approved too!
One thing I forgot to mention was that I finally got Soul to get into stripper game. I also got Farmer into it after we went to Spearmint Rhino. They both love it now. So I know already what’s going to happen at the Las Vegas Super Conference after hours….
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The next day I met up with Jeremy, 5.0, sheriff, and Farmer to have some coffee and tea. Damn British people. They really do drink too much coffee and tea. We talked some shit on each other, had deep philosophical debates, and exchanged some next level Love Systems material you can’t even get the upcoming Super Conference (video here) or the Advanced Playboy Mansion bootcamp.
We bounced to a restaurant to meet up with Mr M and his roommate (or “flat mate” as the British say). We shared some Thai food and talked a lot about some social circle game and business stuff. We later went to a big club in London and because we were so bored of talking to girls in old fashion, we decided to spice it up by doing Keys To The VIP alike missions. It was hilarious, from saying the stupidest lines we gave each other to getting possessions from girls within 10 seconds.
It was great seeing the London based instructors. Normally I only see them when they come to the Super Conference, but it was great to see them in their own city. I’ll be back there again for another round of fun (and debauchery).
Ross Jeffries Lost His Mind
All the proof is in the video below.
Come See Dubbsy and Bonsai at 2010 PUA World Summit
Some great news for people who want to see me speak live. At the upcoming PUA World Summit, Dubbsy and yours truly will be speaking. We can’t reveal yet what we will talking about, but you can expect it will be cutting edge.
There is a long history between me and the PUA World Summit. I think I’ve been to every one for the last two years. The first time was when I saw Nick Savoy speaking. He was talking about female psychology (undoubtedly his favorite topic) and seduction. After he was done talking, I remember telling him how could make more money if he did X and Y. He said it was a good idea and would take it in consideration. Fast forward about a year later when I started to work at the Love Systems office and now this is what I do on a weekly basis :-)
Last year Daxx was one of the speakers and I was there to support him. I wasn’t an official instructor by then. So first I was a student and this year I’ll be one of the speakers. The same story goes for the Super Conference a couple weeks later. In my opinion every dating coach should be able to empathize with people who are following his work. That’s why we at Love Systems make sure that every coach was once a student before.
To get an idea what you can expect at the PUA World Summit, check out the video below:
I hope to see you there. Definitely say hi if you can catch me because I love getting in touch with my blog readers.
The Porn Stars of Love Systems Instructors
No this isn’t what you think….this is about the preferences of girls of a couple Love Systems instructors, with the twist that the girls are represented by a porn star / adult actress. Not the actual girls they are dating. I’ve worked with all the current Love Systems coaches and I got to see what kind of women they prefer. So I thought, I’d share it with the rest of the world. I only included the lead instructors (the ones that are teaching bootcamps) or else I would have to write this for hours since we now have about 30 instructors (most out of every dating company in our industry).
Without further ado…..
This was a tough one. Tenmagnet is one of the OG and he needs someone who is more classy and sophisticated, which is a rare breed in the adult industry. Plus she needs to have some intelligence. Another rare bread. Fortunately, Kayden Kross fulfills all requirements.
Braddock is the All-American boy out of all instructors. Tall, handsome, from the country-side, drove a tractor and played sports in school. Since his move to Los Angeles all he has been chasing is Socal girls: blond, tan, and blue eyes. So native Southern California girl Britney Amber fits him perfectly.
This whiteboy has yellow fever. That’s it.
The man who claims that Moscow has the most beautiful women on the planet. With a history of dating Eastern European girls (and taming them) it’s no surprise Aletta Ocean is the pr0n star for The Don.
As long the girl is not Asian, we are good. I also know Mr M really likes blond girls that have that sex appeal look. This guys knows what sexy looks like and so do I. With the above picture of Jesse Jane, you might now understand why Mr M likes the “sexy look.”
Bad boy Cajun is a huge fan of rock n roll and the only adult actress who’s into that is Jenna Haze. Easy match.
Computer nerd and rave enthusiast Fader loves Latin heat, especially Colombian women (and I don’t blame him). I almost picked Esperanza Gomez since she is from Colombia, but since Fader has been trying to pick up and seduce Jenaveve Jolie on Twitter (LS_Fader) I figured she is the best pick.
Whenever Jeremy and I would do approaches on the street, we were usually going for the same women because we both like brunettes. For him though, he really likes brunettes with fair skin. If they are freaky in bed, even better! What better fit than Ms Freaky….Sasha Grey.
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Asa Akira looks like someone made a woman to the exact specifications of my libido. Not a hard choice, Bonsai, but a commendable one.
Like I said before in our car rides in between debauchery times….she has an alien face!
Which one would fit you most Mr.Bonsai ;)
I'm going to have to go with Jayden James. Although Aletta Ocean is a favorite too, but The Don already has her. You?
I'd give my left leg for Aletta Ocean haha. I can't decide between Julia Paes or Eva Angelina.
I'm a big fan of Jennifer White
Amen to her…although I'm sure Soul would like her too.
Can't go wrong with Eva!
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5.0 and I will be in Amsterdam
This goes out for all my Dutch readers.
On August 22nd, 5.0 and I will be hosting a seminar in Amsterdam! This will be a fun and educational seminar. What makes this one unique is that this is the first time where a US based instructor and UK based instructor are teaching a seminar together.
Also, since I’m a native Dutchman you will hear me ramble a bit in Dutch :-)
5.0 will be talking about daytime dating: how to meet women in daytime environments, covering the approach all the way to the first date. I will be talking about how to pick up strippers, bartenders, and waitresses.
We only have 40 seats available and it’s first come, first serve. So book your tickets now before it is sold out.
You can sign up here!
THAT cheap? That's sooooo unfair! Wish I was there!
You can still fly over. The expenses added up will make it seem more pricey and worthwhile for sure ;)
Daytime Dating Is Coming Out
In case you haven’t heard about it, the #1 day game expert in the world Jeremy Soul is releasing his book Daytime Dating. It’s all about meeting, attracting, and seducing women in daytime environments. He really broke down the simple steps necessary to meet women in the day (“day game”). There are some differences between night game and day game.
Just because you might be really good at picking up girls in bars and clubs, does not mean you will be good at day game. A couple months ago Jeremy stayed at my place for a week and he was putting the finishing touches on it. What I really liked the most is the chapter on Conversational Mapping. This is a technique Jeremy Soul came up with it and basically what it does is that you will NEVER run out of things to say, but tailored for daytime environments.
If you can apply conversation mapping into your Love Systems skills, you will have absolutely no problem attracting women in coffee shops, malls, streets, and any place you find women in the daytime. I’m a living proof it. My day game used to be horrible till I started to hang out with Jeremy Soul. When he showed me conversation mapping, it blew my mind how powerful it is. That is just one of the chapters in Daytime Dating. There’s a sample chapter available to get a feel for what the book is like. Definitely check it out coming out August 5th.
Adventures at the Advanced Playboy Mansion Bootcamp
It was that time of the year. The advanced bootcamp was going to take place at the Playboy Mansion. This is a special workshop because that’s when the really advanced teachings of Love Systems are being taught to get those super hot girls. We’re not saying that you can’t pickup super hot girls with regular a bootcamp, you definitely can (as many former students can attest) but at the advanced bootcamp we really zoom in on specific things to get these girls.
As a little kid I always wanted to go to the Playboy Mansion. Growing up I used to watch a lot of TV and music videos that had clips of bunnies hopping around at the Playboy Mansion. I remember sitting in class talking with my friends how one day we are going to be at the legendary playground and get a playmate.
Fast forward a decade and a dream came true. I was lucky enough to join Nick Savoy and Future to cause some havoc at the most extravagant mansion I’ve ever been too. Nowhere else have I seen so many million dollar cars on a lawn and half naked women walking around. It was awesome just being there. But let me back track a bit again.
Savoy doesn’t really teach workshops anymore. He’s too busy with running the day to day business side of Love Systems but the only times he does teach is at the annual advanced bootcamp and Super Conference. However, for me this was the first time seeing Nick teach some advanced concepts of Love Systems. So I sat in front row and acted like a student by taking notes, asking questions, and vigorously listening what the big man had to say.
I know Savoy is a smart guy. I work with him every day. But this time I had the chance to see him in a different setting where he is teaching. Wow. This time he wasn’t holding back. Future, who is one of the veterans of Love Systems, was also taking notes. Yeah, it was that insightful, advanced, and awesome.
There was one section where Savoy taught very specific Love Systems techniques for Las Vegas. He taught one technique on how you use black jack to pull girls. This part alone was worth $$$!
After the seminar Future and I went back to Savoy’s pimp bachelor pad to get ready for the night. I was so psyched because I was going to lose my PB Mansion virginity. All three of us hop in the cab and off we went.
We get at the mansion and all I see is hot girls in skimpy outfits. I liked the start of the night already. Even though I was like a kid in a candy store, I was there to work. I take my job very serious and my focus was 100% on the students. Well…not true. 99% on students, 0.5% on looking at the women there and 0.5% figuring out how one of them is going to end up with me. Yes, there is a place for having decimal points in Love Systems (inside joke with Savoy and Future).
I worked with one guy in particular. He shared a similar background as me: studied finance, Asian, wants to date Caucasian girls (he had limiting beliefs on that), and is a cool person.
So he had the limiting belief that he couldn’t date Caucasian girls. He had success with Asian girls, but none with white girls. Sounds familiar? Yessssir. I used to have that limiting belief too.
When it comes to limiting beliefs, one part of destroying it is by seeing that it is not true. You can tell a person a belief might not be true, but it still won’t have that much of an effect. However, when that person can visually see that there is proof that contradicts that belief, he can slowly work on overcoming that limiting belief. That night I showed him that an average/ugly Asian guy, like myself, can pickup hot white girls. By him seeing me do it, I was slowly destroying his limiting belief.
Towards the end of the night every remaining student was talking to playmates and murdering the mansion. A fun part of the night was introducing Savoy to every hot blond girl I was talking to, because blond girls is like kryptonite to him. Savoy is in a monogamous relationship so he had to behave that night (he still did demos of course). I decided to have some fun with that. Sometimes I would approach a blond girl on purpose so I could introduce her to Savoy and sometimes he would give me that look of “Thanh, I hate you and love you at the same time…” Hahaha.
About half an hour before closing time Savoy points out this hot girl that he really likes. Of course she was blond. But since he had to behave that night, my inner Barney Stinson came out and I said “I accept the challenge!” Then right before closing time we left together.
Adventures at the Advanced Playboy Mansion Bootcamp is a post from Thanh Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach
Daytime Dating Video of Jeremy Soul
Daytime Dating expert Jeremy Soul just posted this video online where you can see him try to take a girl home. It’s too funny. There is some hidden pickup and dating advice in there too. Do you see it ?
Love. This.
New Audio Review of My Training
Ever since I put up my page on private 1on1 training I’ve been really busy with training guys in private sessions. That’s on one hand good, but on the other hand this blog suffers a bit. So the next couple of weeks I’m going to step it up again.
A few weeks ago I did some training with a guy who wanted to work on his Love Systems skills and he wanted to learn how to pickup strippers. We did three days of training and he made a lot of progress and ever since our 1on1 he has been picking up strippers left and right. He recently recorded an audio testimonial for me and you can find it below.
If you are interested in working with me, don’t hesitate to contact me.
New Audio Review of My Training is a post from Thanh Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach
How I Picked Up A Girl Using Foursquare
I’m a big proponent of social media. In my vision, the next couple of years social media will change the online marketing. When you look closer, it already has with the rise of Facebook and Twitter. However, I never realized how you can use it to meet girls!
Earlier I wrote about how I like using foursquare to pick venues to meet girls. The next step is using actually using foursquare to talk to girls. That happened to me last week.
Around the Love Systems office is a coffee shop I always go to get an everything bagel with egg. It’s my favorite breakfast / lunch food there. As I walk in, I see a gorgeous girl sitting by herself reading a newspaper. I’m not really established yet in that coffee shop where I have social proof I can use to meet women.
To be honest, I was a little hesitant to approach her. I’m barely awake, she is the first stranger I talk to, I had to go back to work before Savoy breathes down my neck, and I was basically being a chicken. The first girl you want to meet in the daytime is always the hardest one. Once you’ve talked to that one, the other ones following are easy. This girl also didn’t give me any eye contact to make it a lukewarm approach so this was a real cold approach.
So there I was, chickening out whether I should talk to her. What do I do ? The bad move: I get my phone and start checking Twitter and email. That’s the last thing you want to do before you do an approach. Don’t get yourself in an thinking state.
So I fire up foursquare on my iPhone and start checking in. Lo and behold, I can see that one person is checked in the same coffee shop I’m in. Maybe it was faith, but it was the girl I was hesitant to approach! The game gods wanted me to talk to her.
Whenever you check-in on foursquare, you can see the first name of every person and the first initial of the last name. With that knowledge, I knew had to approach this girl.
Me: Hey Dana.
Her: Huh? Do I know you?
Me: No you actually don’t, but I saw on foursquare that you’re checked in here. So I thought I’d talk to you while I wait for my bagel.
Her: Wow I can’t believe this.
Me: Yeah I know. Whoever thought foursquare could help charming single guys meet girls.
Her: [laughter]
Me: I’m Thanh btw.
Her: Well you know my name already. [shake hands]
Me: What is it that you’re reading about?
And off we go into our conversation. I knew that if I didn’t go talk to her, I would regret it. One thing Braddock always says on bootcamp is: rejection weighs ounces, regret weighs tons. I’ll take rejection over regret any time of the day. That’s easy to say in hindsight, but I cannot stress this enough.
I don’t want to ponder whether I should have talked to that girl. Or what if I should have done X or Y. What I do know is that the girl could have been my next girlfriend. Who knows. You won’t know till you have talked to the girl.
How I Picked Up A Girl Using Foursquare is a post from Thanh Bonsai – Asian Dating Coach
